Me and my friend...are we something more?

Question

I like one of my really good friends as more than a friend. She just broke up with her boyfriend, but she's insists she's perfectly fine. She's a very positive girl, and...well...I've always thought she was cute. What really surprised me was when I told my best friend (who's a girl) and she said she already knew! And that it was obvious! So she offered to ask this girl how she felt about me. Later on, she told me that my friend wanted to talk to me about where we stand... I'm ready now, but I don't think my friend is. I talk to her (the girl I like) quite a bit, and she's still yet to bring anything up about the matter. Should I bring up the possibility of a relationship, or shold I wait for her? Also, I'd like to spend more time with her, but...she's a REALLY busy person. How can we find more time out side of school to spend together.

Answer 1

*sigh man you've got the same problem as like 50 bazillion guys out there. They got this friend who's a girl, and they want her as something more. She knows that he wants her, but she just keeps him around for either ego gratification, or because she genuinely likes you as a friend. I'm a guy who's had this experience before. you've got 3 options. First is you basically ask her out as your other friend who's a girl suggests. trust me, do this and ur relationship will be completely effed up. Second is get Double your dating an awesome ebook that really helps with girls, and third is to learn speed seduction. trust me, I'm not affiliated with either of these sites. Speed Seduction is by far better, but it takes a while to get good at it, where as double your dating works pretty well, but you can use it as soon as u read it. in the mean time, start ignoring her a bit, and make fun of her a bit. tease her, not meanly, but as like a good friend. trust me, she'll love it. BUT DON'T ask her out, until uve at least looked at the advice in one of the two books. good luck :)