Me and my gf are 13 but live really far away and our parents wont let us see each other how can we meet :(?

Question

Me and my gf are 13 but live really far away and our parents wont let us see each other how can we meet :(?

Answer 1

Why wont they let you see eachother?  maybe hold off on the boyfriend girlfriend thing and hang out as friends, or supervised?  let your parents see you can be trusted then you can spend time alone.

Answer 2

You can't. Spend time (if you are allowed) with your friends from school or church.

Answer 3

I understand how your feeling! because if im honest I've been there hun. I was in a long distance relationship at 13 and I would of done anything to meet him. You may think now that your parents are being cruel and unreasonable but in a few years time you'll understand why they wouldnt let you meet.

All you can do for now is try to keep the relationship together whilst keeping it long distance till your older, if you can't then maybe its time to look for someone more local (even if you love the girl who lives far away)

Long distance relationships are hard, but sometimes they work out ok. Wait till your 15 or 16 and if you still want to meet this girl then ask your parents again, if your still together in 2 years time they might take your relationship with this girl more seriously.

But I beg you not to go against what your parents say, dont meet this girl without your parents consent when you are only 13.

Good luck x

Answer 4

You must respect your parents wishes. Meanwhile how about writing to each other, not text or email. Proper letters.