Me and my girlfriend got extremely drunk last night and I made out with another guy. Please help?

Question

So last night I was at a party, and let's just say everyone had way too much to drink. I couldn't see straight, and my girlfriend (of 2 years who I love very much) was throwing up in one of the bedrooms completely out of it.

Then all of a sudden I remember being up against the bathroom wall with this guy (Mark) who was making out with me. He kept telling me to kiss him, and being an idiot drunk I started kissing him back for about 1 minute and he felt up on me with our clothes on and everything until I told him to stop because I love my girlfriend and wouldn't ever cheat on her. But since I was so drunk, I made out with him for a few times for a few minutes. I felt he had a hard-on, and I told him I was horny and he said "let's wait til everyone's asleep".

This guy (Mark was drunk, but still sober enough to know what was going on). I still don't know how we started making out, but I didn't let it go further and I told him I wasn't going to throw my relationship away for him.

I love my gf so much and I feel so awful and I feel like a monster for what I did. I only told my gf that he kissed me in the bathroom, but then I pushed him away and said no, so my girlfriend isn't mad at me.

Mark now has my number and is texting me. I think he got my number because he had my gf's phone for awhile last night. I asked him what all happened last night and he didn't text me back yet.

So can you give me any advice please, should I tell my gf, should I forget this ever happened? What should I tell this guy Mark about last night or should I talk to him???

I'm never going to get this wasted again so this won't be a problem anymore. I just didn't know my drinking limits last night and I feel like I got taken advantage of....

Answer 1

If it wasn't because your girlfriend would you be making out with Mark anyway? I think it's time to unleash your instinct towards guys. well i'm just kidding... so i guess Mark is g*y and yes, he was taking advantage on you. So my advice, don't bother him either seeing or texting him. It's for your own good. And be extra careful next time, reduce your alcohol intake and sure you'll be conscious enough to know what's happening around.

Answer 2

well he kinda took advantage of you..so I would be pissed.

Tell your girlfriend everything...its gonna suck,shes gonna be pissed but honesty is important..tell her you were taken advantage of and he was manipulating you.

Tell <Mark> to p**s off,andon'tu dont wanna **** up your relationship and he's a twacontinuingnueing to push himself on you when you werent in proper stait of mind.

Answer 3

i dont think you need to tell your girlfriend anymore than you already did.

&& you definitely shouldnt be talking to mark

you did cheat & it was with him

if i was your girlfriend i wouldnt want you talking to him

> & i wouldnt know why you would want to

> id fear itd happen again with youu too, & it wouldnt be a trust issue itd be because it already happen & 100% itd cause other issues.

theres no really more you can do since shes not mad at you

you should try to move on past the situation.

but you might want to be sure your girlfriend is completely ok about everything.

just because shes not mad doesnt mean shes not a little concerned.

id talk to her & see what shes thinking.  

Answer 4

I wouldn't tell your girlfriend more than you have to, it would just lead to bigger problems. Explain to your dear friend Mark that you got a little drunker than you had planned on, you are accounted for, and he shouldn't expect anything like that happening again in the future.  

Answer 5

doesn't matter what you promise to do in the future the issue is what happened in the past.

tell her everything that happened and what's going on with the texting. be honest and complete. leave nothing out, because sooner or later, it will come out and it will look like you're covering for it.

then kiss her. tell her you love her. if she's mad, take your medicine and have a wonderful rest of your life with her.

don't respond to him in text. don't even talk to him and hopefully he'll go away. but he may be vindictive and talk to your gf -so talk to her first, like right now.,...put down the keyboard and walk, gurl....

Answer 6

dont respond to him and dont drink ever again.

drinking only causes problems.....

like this one.

Answer 7

Oh the demon drink eh? If he phones and suggests anything tell him either you are not interested or to have a word with you gf first.

Answer 8

Don't respond to him.  He will get bored with chasing you and move on to someone else.  If no-one else knows about it then if he tries to tell her, you could say he was exaggerating.  No need to hurt your girlfriend's feelings and possibly endanger your relationship.