Me and my girlfriend has s*x, I wanted to tell I wanted to wait until the next time but when I called...?

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Me and my girlfriend thought we were ready to have s*x, and I know I love her a lot and she loves me. After wards, I know I enjoyed it and I still love her obviously, I just think we should wait until we are older and in a deeper relationship before doing it again. However, when i called to tell her how I felt, she began crying down the phone to me as soon as I said hello, telling me she was sure she was pregnant. She was very paranoid and extremely upset about it.

We both made sure we were prepared for s*x, we did everything right. Now I know she could be pregnant (she's not on the pill) but it was also her just getting herself worked up. She's scared to take a pregnancy test. I know I need to help her because I love her so much even though she's working herself up a lot, but I'm just really confused and maybe shocked, I don't know what to do.

Please help :thank you so much.

Answer 1

Did you use ANY birth control?

If you didn't, you're dumb.  Sorry kid.

But girls get really scared about getting pregnant when they're as young as she is.

Hopefully, she's just being paranoid.

If you guys did use protection, there's no real reason she should be pregnant, unless the condom broke or something.

Seriously, just be there for her.  

She'll eventually stop freaking out.

Maybe she does need to take a pregnancy test.

If she does, be there when she takes it and reassure her beforehand that even if she is pregnant, you're still here for her and you'll help her out.

It's your job as the dad of this hopefully nonexistent baby to be there for your girlfriend.

Good luck

Answer 2

how late is her period?

there is a chance she could be pregnant.

you guys should talk about it and look up what some of the signs are.

if she's going through some of these then maybe she should take a test.

Answer 3

Ah, she couldn't be 'sure' in a few hours or even a couple of days..  doesn't work that way.

Tell her to calm down, she obviously was not ready for s*x if she wasn't able to use precautions.  She could be pregnant but most likely is just being hysterical because she went farther than she was ready for and first s*x for a untried girl is not very much fun.

Tell her you will be there for her, but she MUST take a test, you can buy it for her.  and if it turns out she is not pregnant _Do Not_ have s*x again until you are much older.  You have a good head on your shoulders.   Neither one of you need to complicate your life with an unplanned baby.  

Answer 4

sucks for you.

Answer 5

just be with her in this. dont let this negatively effect how u feel about her. even the thought that u could be pregnant can be very scary. make her take the test and handle this as responsibley and maturely as possible :) good luck, hope the test proves her wrong

Answer 6

I think if you guys took the right precautions [Condom] then there is very little chance she is pregnant and just stressed and nervous

Has she missed her period?

How long ago was this?

Any symptoms?

Take a test after she misses her period

Answer 7

wait so did you use protection or not? i think that your girlfriend is acting a little immature, but you should see what's going on and help her through it.

Answer 8

you should make her take the test, there's a chance she's just getting herself worked up and everything, but just to be certain take a test. scared or not if she is pregnant she is if she's not she's not and nothing will change it.

Answer 9

Has she missed her period yet? IF not tell her not to stress it will delay her period more. When and if she does miss her period go a free clinic very confidentual and have a pregnancy test. Then I would go from thier.

Answer 10

make her take the test.. she needs to take it..you both need to prepare for the worst possible situation.. I hope all goes well...