Me and my good friend grew really apart and i don't know how to fix it..any ideas? THANKS :)?

Question

so me and my friend have been reallly good friends... but since the school started we just grew apart,..like she hangs out with people i don't like and for example today i asked her if she could give me a ride to this party and she said that she is not driving.. and that other girls are driving..but she didn't ask me to come!

and she doesn't even eat lunches with me and stuff....

what should i do to make us being good friends again?

Answer 1

Try talking to her. Tell her how you feel. Or better yet, invite her for an outing, or some activity you both enjoy, like shopping and those stuffs. In the same way, make friends with other people, so in case things won't work out, at least you can still find comfort in others. Ask her what's wrong, maybe you did something that made her hurt, but that would be so pathetic. Don't let her get into you. Maybe she just wanted to feel other people's presence, and maybe she was just hanging out too often with them. Good luck.

Answer 2

Don't worry, all you have to do is be yourself. tell them that you miss being friends with them, and tell her/them that we should try and build a friendship back again. the most important thing is not to be anyone that your not. in the end everything happens for a reason. make new friends and eat lunch with them.

Answer 3

you could talk to her and tell her how you feel about how you guys grew apart and if she was really a good friend of yours, she'd care. then you guys could make plans and start hanging out with each other.

Answer 4

find new freinds

Answer 5

I would try to find a time at least once a week to hang out for a while.

You'll both c y u were friends in the first place and probably after a few times doing this b good friends again

Answer 6

If I were you I would find out if she was mad or something and if so try to fix it. Now if she is just not being like she was when hanging out with you (witch happened to me so many times) maybe she going through a phase or something. If not just try to talk to her and if that does not work wait and see how things turn out.

           Try,try,try!!!!:)

Answer 7

prolly not much she seems alot cooler then u, i wouldnt wanna b with u either