Me and my husband need help with concieving!?

Question

Me and my husband have been married for just over 2 years now.. about a year ago we decided the time was right to start trying for our first baby together ( he has a daughter from a previous relationship). We made love about 4 times a week and in the month of november i fell pregnant, about 2 months later I unfortunately had a miscarriage. It was a really tough time for both of us, we have now been trying for another baby for over nine months and got no were!! does anyone have any tips for conceving a baby.. please help! as I'm desperate for a baby with my husband! thanks.

Answer 1

First of all, I'm really sorry for your loss.  

Second, since you have been able to conceive in the past, this shows that you and your husband are capable of having a child.  If you find that you've been trying for over 1 year without success (so another 3 months), you may want to consult a doctor for advice.  

Good luck!

Answer 2

well calm down. they say the harder you try the harder it is. just have fun with it. dont make s*x a chore. start a cycle of prenatels right away this makes sure that your body has the right nutrition for a baby to grow. then after you husband ejaculates lay on your back and curl your legs above your head, this sucks the s***n far into your vaginal cavity and gives the sperm a little extra boost.

i dont know your situtation but if your hubby smokes weed, takes steroids or drinks too much mountain dew, these things can make the sperm count go down.

Answer 3

i miscarried in april and started to try again straight away, no luck yet though, miscarriages are awfull and i know how you feel, the time will be right for you one day

Answer 4

Losing a child is a very traumatic event, and I am sorry that that happened to you.

The first tip that I have is to possibly talk to someone about the miscarriage. That will maybe relieve some stress from you, as it is hard to conceive when you are stressed.

I would also suggest charting your monthly cycle. Just by knowing when you are ovulating will give you a higher chance of becoming pregnant. There are great sites that will help you with the charting, and will also show you days when you are most likely to ovulate. The best site I have found is femta.com- you can download a free trial which will last you a few months.

I have also been told that is is better to only have intercourse about every 36 hours, as that will give your husband some time for his active sperm count to build back up. The days leading up to ovulation you should try to refrain from having intercourse as well so that you will be more likely to conceive on your ovulation day.

I hope that you have success soon. I know the aggrivation and disappointment in not being able to conceive. I hope you find these tips helpful. :) Good Luck. I will pray for your family to grow.  

Answer 5

Pls give some gap between ur miscarriage & next conceiving ....

By the same time  visit a doctor , he will give u some hormonal medicines.. and then plan for your day ... keep a track of ur menses days .. is it coming on the same interval every month .. like 28 days gap...

At last, after your latest period  have s*x on 13 to 17th day ...this is the best time....

& then wait ...  Also drop in your mail to me...

Answer 6

My doctor tells me that 6 - 12 months is the AVERAGE amount of time it takes a couple to get pregnant. Some are lucky enough to be less, but some couples take a bit longer. If you're really concerned, I would go talk to my doctor. I would imagine it takes the body a little time to bounce back from a miscarriage.