Me and my sister wht can i do

Question

yeah im 14 and my sisters 11 and she is rele annoying she dosent listen shes inconsiderite and dosent care bout wht i say she knows how to make me lose my cool and get mad wht can i do

Answer 1

Oh, man, that's frustrating! Have you tried being nice to her? That always used to freak me out when my older brothers were nice to me. I was annoying to them because I just wanted attention from them. When they started paying attention to me, I stopped being annoying and realized that I didn't have to be just to get their attention. What really worked with me was when they'd bargain with me to spend an hour doing something I wanted (like they'd take me to the mall for an hour if I left them alone all morning).

If that doesn't work, you could talk to your parents and have a really adult, mature discussion about your needs so you aren't always losing your cool with your sister and ask their input. She's at an age that's really tough b/c 11 year olds generally get attention or communicate repetitively and in ways that aren't grown up yet.

Good luck with that.

Answer 2

She is a little kid.  Kids her age don't really care about anything and do crazy things.  When she will be your age, she will be mature, so she will realize it.  All you need is to have patience and deal with it.  

If the situation get worse, stay still, and involve your parents.  

Answer 3

Whatever you do don't hit hit or get mad at her. Remember she is your sister and your supposed to look out for eachother.

Answer 4

ignore her and find a girl [like me] lol

Answer 5

Sorry sweetie but all sisters are like that. you can practice doing this walk around acting like it doesn't bother you though.

Answer 6

ignore her when she's bugging you, that's her whole goal is to annoy you.. and don't let it show when she gets under your skin, if you pretend it doesn't bother you she'll stop

Answer 7

My dad is like was abd we were we thining abt  putting him ina nutsing home.    You have to contro your anger.  Unless ahe is a dange tot himself or any ooerson

Answer 8

She wants your attention.  I have daughters that are three years apart and the only thing my little one wants is to have her big sisters attention.      

Try making friendship bracelets with her or setting some time aside for the two of you to talk.  Trust me, she'll give you the world if you just spend some time in hers.