Me and myfriend have been trying to have a baby since april/08. What are our chances? we are 31-37,?

Question

I have had clamydia in the past like 6 times. Just had cervical surgery due to dysplaysia back in april/08.

I do have regular periods, healthy, and him he's stuggling with stress alot lately due to his kids a custody thing.

Oh and we are both on anti-depressents, and myself I am on the methadone program 8 years now,due to an opiate addiction problem I had from 17-24, and his poison has been alcohol. what should we do get tested to see if we can have a baby??????? help us!!!!!!!!!!

If we need to go the science way we will!!!

Answer 1

Chlamydia, methadone, anti-depressants, he's struggling with stress???

Do us all a favor and dont get pregnant, why not buy yourself a fish tank and fill it with some fish and take care of those. See how that works out for you first.

Good Luck

Answer 2

I think there are still chances of you getting pregnant just be careful with the stuff you are taking as it may cause problems (speak to the doc) and stress has alot to do with reducing chances of getting pregnant aswell .. Hope i helped =]

Answer 3

Wait! What? FRIEND?!

Answer 4

I think its wonderful you want to have a baby but I think you two need to get your lives together first.

1. All drugs, even the legal ones should be out of both parents to be systems and lives. Not good for you, fetus, or baby when baby is born. Parents are there children's #1 role models as well, when you do something think to yourself "Do I want my child to grow up and do this?"

2. Stress during pregnancy is not good for you and defiantly not good for baby. We need to get  our lives in check, get the stress taken care of before bring more in. Being prepared will make life much easier.

3. Check with you doctor as well before you try to do anything. With just having surgery only a few months back you want to make sure you body is ready for the physical demands of pregnancy.

Body, mind, and soul should all be ready and healthy before planning to have a baby. It will be easier for both parents, healthier for baby, which means a wonderful happy long life for everyone! A good beginning usually makes for a good future.

Good luck!