Me and the love of my life got split up by his own mom. What should i do?

Question

Me and this boy that i absolutely adore were split up because his mom thought i was a bad influence on him. Keep in mind that i get straight A's, i don't drink, i don't do drugs, and i've never been in trouble with the law. And she used to love me like a daughter but suddenly changed her mind. She sent me threatening voicemails, called me a s**t, and talked about me behind my back to her own family. I don't understand it and i miss him sooooo much. if i can't be with him then i atleast want to be his friend cuz he is an amazing person. I'm only fifteen and she just ripped him away from me. What should i do to win both him and his mom back? (Also he never saw a problem with me, he thought his mom was insane for doing those things)

Answer 1

Surely she has reasons to do this. He is her son after all and you are only a friend up to now.

You could have made a mistake and she could have found out about it. You can't change her mind and remember that as long as he is under her roof, he had better listen to her.  

Answer 2

just think about the situation for a minute.think if you did anything out of the ordiary. then maybe talk him into getting his mom to listen to you while you ask her what you did wrong and if it is something that you can fix. she may just have heard a rumor about you. that might be where the s**t part comes from. if that doesnt work then give it a while let the air clear.

Answer 3

first, i'd take some time away from him and the situation.  something must have happened, even if you weren't aware of it, for her to react so harshly towards you.  i'd try to find out what it was in order to be able to make amends.  

as far as her calling you names and leaving you voicemails, save the voicemails in case you need them as proof if things get worse.  i'd talk to your own parents about the situation as well so that other parties are aware of the circumstances.  

Answer 4

that really sucks

really think about it though did u guys do something u shouldnt have, did you say something that could have been offensive, did you do something to your boyfriend that his mom took the wrong way

u two really have to think about all the possibilities

and then get your boyfriend to talk to her if theres nothing, there must be a reason unless if shes just crazy

if she is then there isnt much you can do, you just gotta wiat till u two are old enough to make your own decisions