Me equal Evil person?

Question

ok this girl (lets call her... betty) ok betty was really being a backstabber to me and my other firend (lets call her jill!) and she was like stalking us and we hated her! so we finnally just told her we didnt want to b her friend anyumore. she has a myspace and is posting journals saying she cant eat or drink anything and thats she shaky and sweaty all the time, and is having terrible nightmares. she is 13, 5'2" and wieghs EIGHTY SIX POUNDS!! i know i cant be her friend again, she really made me and jill miserable and treated us terribly but i feel so guilty and am really concerned for her... so am i evil or somehting?

Answer 1

You aren't evil, not getting involved with her again is actually the mature and responsible thing to do. By posting information about how sick she is she is begging for attention. Reaching out to her will be giving her exactly what she wants. She needs a rude awakening, that attention seeking behavior will not work. Tell a teacher, school administrator, or one of her parents that Betty is not eating. Give them a copy of the myspace journals. This is not betraying your former friend- this is what will help her. Let the adults deal with her problem, because if you try to deal with it yourself, she will continue to abuse you and Jill.