Mean "Friends" Getting on my Nerves?

Question

My "friend" Bethany and I used to get along pretty well, until like three months ago she started acting really bitchy. The worst part is my other "friend" Susan agrees with all the mean things she says to me. Bethany always tells me I'm an idiot, and that I always make fun of her but I barely do, and trust me, I never say anything hurtful. And Susan just agrees with her.

They walk over to me and hit me in the head as hard as they can if they ever get mad at me, and if I tell them to stop, they say "Why, it's fun."

My good friends are in a group with them, they are like a package deal. My good friends agree they are bitchy a lot, but nothing ever happens. Every time after I am around them, I feel angry for a couple days after, and I hate feeling like an angry person. I still want to see my good friends, but I can't deal with my mean "friends" anymore. What should I do?

Answer 1

stop contacting them.

if they try and talk to you, dont respond or just walk away.

maybe they think theyre being funny, but theyre actually being abusive.

i really hate girls like that,

and it seems like Bethany is the leader, and the others are her little dogs who do what ever she tells them to.

these are not good people, nor are they people anyone wants in their lives.

everyone deserves better people in their lives than those girls.

Answer 2

well, i noticed that your name is "tom" and well yeah thats a dudes name. so i'm guessing that these girls are still REALLY immature, and when girls are like around this age, they tend to beat up and be obnoxious to the guys they like. haha, trust me, i used to be like that a few years ago.

but yeah, they must like you. so just confront them saying "look, you guys are being really immature and its getting kinda annoying. so just knock it off. seriously. because im getting pissed off with you guys and its just ticks me off that you treat me so rudely." and point out the stuff they do.

and with your other friends, when they are around the girls, just ignore the girls and just talk to your real friends. and when the girls complain, just ignore it and if they hit you say knock it off or something and they'll get the picture

hope i helped - natalie <3

Answer 3

IM IN THE SAME DILLEMA my friends are mean and theyre totally bad influences and i want to change "social groups" maybe thats what you should think of doing...  its a new year anyway but you dont need friends like that its no good for you.

Answer 4

you cant let people step all over you and let them do whatever they want to you. if they are mean to you, girl, you better step up your game and tell them off in front of a  whole croud of people. you know how they are to you...and they have NO trouble whatsoever telling other people about you rite? so do the same. tell them off and show them that you have confidence and you can take care of yourself. show em! im serious. you cant waite for them to stop rite? you have to make them stop. or at least go down trying to. you know what you have to say to them...so SAY IT! good luck!