Meanest Big Sister On The Planet????

Question

HELP!! My big sister is SOO mean! Today she got mad at me for no reason at all. She just said I was embarassing her because of my coin collection. She grabbed my most precious coins and through them into the neighbors yard. I went to find them but couldn't find a single one. I got in trouble for not coming when called...she slapped me and slung me onto the street. She shoved my face in the gravel and told me to wait for a car to come and not to move otherwise.

I decided to get back at her. I stole her jewlry box and hid it. she found me later and demanded I bring back every peice of her jewlry...when I told her I was teaching her a lesson, she yanked me out of bed and screamed in my face. So I led her to the jewlry. After I gave it to her, she pulled back her hand and slapped me hard and told me never to touch her things.

I told my mom once , but I got in trouble for hitting my sister. Mom said if I ever did it again, she would whip me.

Later my sister came home and smirked at me...she had told all her friends how I attacked HER. they know and like me. when they asked why she told them I was crazy..now none of them will speak to me.

I hate it when she beats me in front of her friends...they sit there laughing.

If I talk back to her she punches me untill I cry. And If I tell anyone like she did..I get in trouble. I love her..but its getting harder to do so...and I don't want to make her mad anymore.

How can I forgive her and be good from now on? How can I be like she wants???

Answer 1

Keep your head low and stay away from her. Don't tell her about ANYTHING in your life(like your coin collection) and keep as distant as possible. Don't try to get back at her.

Good luck!

Answer 2

first why is your sister and mom not in jail second cps needs to get involved and you need to get out of the house she might lose it one day and go to far by well i dont want to say it you don't need to forgive her tell her off and say you will call the police if she trys and hurts you.

Answer 3

Silent treatment for her and your mom, omg that's so sad.

my prayers are with you, just cope until university and maintain good grades and friends

Answer 4

She's a bully. Trust me, from personal experience, she won't stop, even if you try to be good and do what she wants.She'll find reasons to abuse you. If you continue to take what she's giving you, she'll just keep giving it. You need to stand up to her- and not by hiding her stuff! If she hits you, hit her back. If you get in trouble, so be it. Punishments only last so long, but your sister will begin to respect you. It sounds like she is the kind of person that only communicates through physical violence. Take a kickboxing or a karate class. Look around at school- I'm willing to bet they have a club you can join where you can learn how to fight. When she hits you, hit back. Hard. A few black eyes, and she'll start to respect you. I know people say that violence solves nothing, but she sounds too dense to understand anything else. Meet her on her own terms, and start swinging. Good luck!  

Answer 5

Wow, i think that she just feels overpowered because she is older.

The best thing you could do is talk to her, tell her that she when she hurts you it makes it harder to love her. Just tell her everything and hopefully she will feel bad and stop doing it. If that doesn't work tell your mum, tell her everything, especially the part about her not doing anything. She is your mother and its horrible that your sister is hurting you this bad and your mum doesn't do anything about it.

I'm not saying you are over exaggerating, but if you are. Sisters will be sisters, don't ever fight back though. When me and my brother used to play fight if i hurt him id get more hurt, so its not a wise thing to do.

Good luck.

Answer 6

Are you even serious? If you are, then I really hope you listen to me.

You don't have to be like she wants. You're good enough the way you are. You don't have to forgive her until YOU are ready to, either. She sounds like a vile, cruel bully. And your Mom seems to be taking her side. You need to talk to an adult that you can trust - your school counselor, perhaps, or another relative - who will believe you and stick up for you. And all of you need to sit down and talk it out. Let them know that she tells lies about you - believe it or not, most adults can tell when kids (even teenagers) are lying just by their body language alone, and if they start putting the pressure on her, she'll crack.

Oh, and if she hits, you, try punching her back. So what if your Mom will "whip" you? Looks like you're going to get it either way, so you may as well show your sister that she can't push you around like she does. Besides, if she knows that you are going to beat the c**p out of her, I bet she'll think twice before doing it to you.