Meeting my boyfriends parents..?

Question

So the problem is that I haven't met my boyfriends parents, and I want to meet them but my boyfriend says no. He says that it's to formal and not necessary. We have been going out for a year and 2 months almost and he has meet my parents, he has even stayed at my house.. when my parents were out of town.

So I told him that I don't want to have s*x anymore until I have atleast met him dad, because he lives with his dad. He said that was just blackmail. But I mean, s*x is something a little more formal, so I don't see what's so wrong with just meeting his dad.

So the question is..

Am I in the right with this? or should I just forget about it and wait until he wants me to meet them?

Answer 1

I don't think what he's doing is right. Ask him, "Are you like embaressed of me or something?" You've let him meet your parents, so it's only fair you get to met his. Don't "just forget about it," meeting these people are important.

Answer 2

is sounds to me like he is not taking the relationship seriously. Are you? I would think after a year yes is ok to meet them. And dont have s*x with him if you dont want to. do not let him pressure you. Watch out and he if he is just with you for s*x. cuz that what he just wants.

Answer 3

there must be a reason why other than that maybe his dad might dissaprove or something

Answer 4

Yes I think you're justified in wanting to meet his parents. You're obviously in a very serious relationship with this guy and by not letting you meet his parents it may be a way of showing that the relationship is not as serious to him as it is to you. Your idea about not having s*x is a good way to show him how much it means to you, but you may need to clearly explain why you want to meet his parents. If there is a problem that he has with his dad and THAT'S why he doesn't want you to meet him, let your boyfriend know that it's okay to share this information with you.

Answer 5

don't stress it. if he likes you then most likely his parents will like you too. just be calm talkative and very polite.

Answer 6

i think u r doing the right thing

Answer 7

alright theres gotta be an actual REASON behind him not wanting you to meet the parents

so ask him....

don't worry you are definatly in the right, but maybe his dad has some serious problems or something (cuz theres gotta be a reason he divorced his wife)

so maybe your bf is just a little embarassed of what you will think.  reassure him and then ask again