Meeting my gf's mom.?

Question

I have never had to do the whole meet the parents thing, but my new gf's mom says we cant do anything but hang out at their house or walk around outside.

Its just her, her mom, and her older sister. Her dad died a few years back.

I am really nervous when meeting ppl for the first time so its gonna be awkward i think. How can I get over this?

Should I just wear like a t-shirt and shorts since its just a little casual thing? [heard that its best to just be myself so.. ya]

And any other tips???

Im 16{Junior}, shes 14{Freshman}. So i can understand why her mom would do this. But im not like most guys, and dont just go after girls for 'one thing'.

Im kinda self conscious too becuz im 5'7 and 200 lbs, so im kinda bigger. And my gf's about 5'1 and like 100lbs. And it was a shock when she said she liked me lol.

Also.. is it normal to miss her even though we've been dating like 3 days? Its kinda like im anxious to see her again, and idk.

Have only had 4 gf's so not rly experienced here.

Serious answers only please, ive asked this kinda before and got alot of 'Find someone your own age' answers, Only a 2 year difference, and i like her alot, so im not going to do that so plz dont waste ur time and mine. Thanks.

Answer 1

Her mom won't expect you to be as perfect and as polished as, say, an Italian playboy who had already had 14 lovers, one a Contessa with her own yacht. Wear a good shirt and long pants. Comb your hair, clean your fingernails, brush your teeth, make sure your butt crack doesn't show.

Try to listen more than you talk. Expect to goof. Apologize afterwards.

Long term, lose some weight. You are about 50 pounds over, unless your shoulders are 40 inches and your waist is 28.

Answer 2

You said it, just be yourself.  Prepare yourself by seeing the situation from her mom's eyes.  She is raising two young women on her own.  She has to be both mom & dad.  She also doesn't want to her daughters to get into any situations such as abusive relationships, teen pregnancy, dropping out of school, not having friends outside of you.  Keep in mind her daughter is just starting out her high school experience.  Let her mom know that you appreciate being welcome in her home and that you have good intentions.  Your both young and relationships are always exciting so take things slow.  If and when things get more serious always be open and honest with her and her family.  Good luck, I'm sure you'll do just fine.