Meeting my gfs mom.?

Question

I have never had to do the whole meet the parents thing, but my new gf's mom says we cant do anything but hang out at their house or walk around outside.

Its just her, her mom, and her older sister. Her dad died a few years back.

I am really nervous when meeting ppl for the first time so its gonna be awkward i think. How can I get over this?

Should I just wear like a t-shirt and shorts since its just a little casual thing? [heard that its best to just be myself so.. ya]

And any other tips???

Im 16{Junior}, shes 14{Freshman}. So i can understand why her mom would do this. But im not like most guys, and dont just go after girls for 'one thing'.

Im kinda self conscious too becuz im 5'7 and 200 lbs, so im kinda bigger. And my gf's about 5'1 and like 100lbs. And it was a shock when she said she liked me lol.

Also.. is it normal to miss her even though we've been dating like 3 days? Its kinda like im anxious to see her again, and idk.

Have only had 4 gf's so not rly experienced here.

Serious answers only please, ive asked this kinda before and got alot of 'Find someone your own age' answers, Only a 2 year difference, and i like her alot, so im not going to do that so plz dont waste ur time and mine. Thanks.

22 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.

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20 minutes ago

My grandma[yes lol] impacted my gentlemanism alot lol, put me through a 'bootcamp' as a child and Please, thank you, opening doors, paying the way lol, etc. is like automatic. But when im nervous i wont think as much and wont talk as much either loll.

Answer 1

nice answer blue

Answer 2

the first thing i have to tell you is that you sound like an amazing guy.truly,its nice to see chivalry and respect for women isnt completely dead.here,i want you to read what you wrote :

Im 16{Junior}, shes 14{Freshman}. So i can understand why her mom would do this. But im not like most guys, and dont just go after girls for 'one thing'.

Im kinda self conscious too becuz im 5'7 and 200 lbs, so im kinda bigger. And my gf's about 5'1 and like 100lbs. And it was a shock when she said she liked me lol.

i would suggest adding both of those things to the conversation..a mother loves when she can have a nice bond with her daughters spouse.tell her mother that you can understand why she wants to meet you because of your age difference but that you have been brought up to respect women.then, to seem humble and not cocky,tell her mother that your glad that her daughter was interested in you because your not exactly a guy who would expect to be sought after by a small and younger girl.overall dont be worried.if you truly care about this girl,you will find a way to impress mom.tell her you wont rush into anything and then talk about some of your interests.what you like to do,what kind of person you are.good luck sweetie!

Answer 3

1. too much to read

2. no-one cares just be yourself the mothers just going to hate you anyways

Answer 4

You sound like a very nice young man.  It's pretty obvious you know how to be a gentleman, so don't worry about her Mom liking you.  As the Mom of a Daughter, I just wanted to know that whoever she was with would treat her with every ounce of respect she deserved.  

As long as you are in casual settings your dress will be fine if you're just clean and look neatly put together.

It is impressive that you respect her Mom's reasons for not wanting her daughter "dating" at 14.  That is (imo) a bit young.  But it is nice that she is willing to let you enjoy each other's company at their home.

Just be on your best behaviour, and have fun!

Answer 5

Just be yourself, you sound like a nice enough guy. =]

Make sure you make eye contact,

and of course have good manners.

Taht's all I can really say...

just make sure you have a good first impression... (of course)

they're kind of important to moms.

They never want to see their little girl going off somewhere with a guy. haha