Mega Crisis?

Question

I like this guy and I almost went out with him. NOw i like his bestfriend and we could go out but the other guy is in the way. What can i do?

Answer 1

The truth is always the best.

Just tell the guy you're dating that you have found someone else.  He'll find out it's his friend, so might as well tell him that you have become attracted to his best friend and you intend to pursue that relationship.

Has his best friend indicated he wants to go out with you?  

What kind of best friend would do that?  Is that really a guy you want?  He'll probably turn around one day and disappoint you or break your heart or betray you.

In any case, just be honest.  The worst part is the anticipation.  The actual deed only hurts for a few minutes and then you're off to enjoy your new boyfriend.

Answer 2

Give more details, its hard to answer you. If you didnt had anything with the other man, but just some go outs then whats the problem?

If you had relationships with him, I think it will be rude and egoistic to leave him and go out with his best friend. Think about him, dont think about you.

Answer 3

if you can, try to veer away from this relationship.

if you start going out with his best friend, 2 out of 3 people will be in trouble. (you and his best friend)

its not worth wrecking their friendship over.