Mega Romantic Night - is it missing something?

Question

Ok, My Hubby is JUST getting back from his vacation - We have allot of drama to settle out, but I wanna wait until tomorrow to burst him bubble and scream at him.

So - Were going to have - Yummy garlic fish and herbs, Macaroni and cheese, Mixed Veggies - seasoned, Corn on the cobb, Garlic bread, and Sweet rice for dessert. (Were going to the park) Anyways, Im going to bring 3 candles (mosquito's lol) and I plan on "doing him" after the meal is over. hehehehee

Anyways, when we get back (if he can) we will have s**y time at home too. If not, we will watch Rush Hour 3. Then in the morning Ill give him a BJ to wake him up. :D

Is this a nice plan? BTW - I put little cut out hearts dangling from the ceiling and have X-mas lights around the bed room!

Answer 1

What on earth did he do on vacation & why was he on "his vacation" without you?

I guess it all depends on what you're trying to accomplish. If you want him to know that you love him in spite of what he did, then go for the romance first, though I don't know how you'll manage to pull it all off if you're so mad at him. But if he what he did was REALLY horrible (How do you define horrible?), then you might just want to get the screaming out of the way & save the romance for the makeup time, if you plan to make up with him. Without knowing what he did, it's really hard to give you advice here. Whatever he did, good luck.

Personally, I'd probably go for the romance first. Then when he thinks he got away with something, I'd let him have it the next morning. It would also give me a little more leverage with him if he's had a good night with me the day before. Does he know that you're aware he messed up?

Answer 2

At first I thought something was missing from this romantic get together, but then I re read it and I see that you are in fact planning on watching Rush Hour 3. The most romantic of the Rush Hour movies.

Oh to be young again.

Before you start blowing him, and then yelling at him later. Be prepared for him to be really confused. If he messed up BAD then you will be sending him a mixed message. That you aren't upset about the mistake he made. If you are mad enough to scream at him. Then get it over with. But if you can do a whole romantic night (including RH3) before you scream at him. Do you really need to scream at all?

Answer 3

Have this romantic night then leave it a week or so until he does something wrong then really scream at him just dont ruin the night u ave planned