Men, for the first time when you had s*x did you

Question

you know too early>>>>>

i'm going to have s*x with a virgin and hes worried that he'll u know too soon.

Answer 1

I probably did yes, but it's just all part of the experience I guess.

Answer 2

No problems and it lasted a long time

She was a virgin too and I was really concentrating on her pleasure more than mine, she was extremely tight but then we both relaxed and everything was great, lasting longer and longer when we went the next two times after and then again in the morning

Give your guy head and make him ejaculate before the main event, that's a recommended way to relieve his stress and get him relaxed

You can teach him how to give you foreplay to bring you to o****m two or three times beforehand then reward him with a bj before you both get down to the serious business

Tell him he mustn't w.nk at home 1st, you want him to deliver a full load

Enjoy

: )s

Answer 3

Yep, I prem ejacted for the first few months.

Answer 4

Yeah I did. I was so nervous I spaffed on her legs before I got it in. When I actually done it I came after like 20 seconds. Doesn't matter though. Just keep doing it and he'll get good. I did.

Answer 5

h**l no, 3 hours my first time =)

But if you understand his situation then you should'nt regret having s*x with him. If he does nust a but quickk he needs to contact a doctor and fix his lil problem....after that both you will enjoy it fa sho'

Answer 6

haha yeah i did.

tell him to m********e a few hours before s*x.. he will last alot longer

Answer 7

i didn't have an o****m at all the first (or second) time i had s*x

i'm certain it's because of medication i was on at the time though (sertraline)

Answer 8

Yes way too early! lol

Answer 9

"You know"?  You know that you can say c-u-m here and no one will jump on you, unless you type the letters together and then the censor will turn it into asterisks.  Strange - we use the word c-u-m all the time and they won't let us use it here, so you can say "come" and it means the same, sounds the same, and works the same!  LOL

Tell your boyfriend just to take his time and not go at it like a jackrabbit and he should be fine.  As some other guys have said here, it could help if he masturbates ahead of time - having that first c-u-m will mean the second one will be a little slower. If you want to have some fun, you can help him do it!

Good luck and don't forget come back and tell us how it went.

Answer 10

i was drunk, was about 15mins - dunno if i just lost it because i was drunk or came - can't really remember! :D

good times

Answer 11

i did, like about 30 secs after i started on her, but i kept going for it so she could get satisfied to, i didn't want to be greedy u know  

Answer 12

depends on the person...nerves play a huge role in it, and they can make you last longer or finish faster. i lasted 45 minutes my first time. If he is really worried tell him to drink 1 beer or 1 glass of wine. It is enough so that nobody is anywhere near drunk but it will relax him and should make him last a bit longer. GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 13

When you're 'into it' all worries leave you. ^ ^

Answer 14

of course he will.. he's gonna be so d**n excited its inevitalbe. but just tell him it's fine. there's always round 2 where he'll have a lot more control

Answer 15

Yep... lasted about 2 minutes I think... It's gunna happen but it gets better. He could get some of those delay condoms if he's really worried about it but its no big deal. Just make sure you don't make  a big deal about it. The more he worries the worse it'll be... just tell him to enjoy it...

Answer 16

my bf didnt come too early

if ur bf thinks he will, tell him to control his pelvic floor muscles. To strenghthen them, he basically needs to stop in the middle of pissing, and then tense them throughout the day.

you could also try the squeezing technique. basically, just before he's about to come, squeeze not too hard just below the head of his p***s, until his erection almost subsides, then you can carry on

Answer 17

o yer omg i havent had s*x yet but i am SOOO worried that i will too soon

i think shell think im perfetic for not giving her a good time :(

Answer 18

Way to early for me.  It lasted about 5 minutes of hard thrusting.  It was over before she even got started.  But about 30 minutes later we went at it again.  It lasted a lot longer and she was very satisfied.  In fact that night we did it about 4 times.  The next day we were both exhausted.

Answer 19

He might *** too early, on the other hand he might be nervous and not manage to get there at all. If he's really concerned that it happens too early you could always m********e him about half an hour or so before you have s*x, but I think the best thing to do is to get on with it and see what happens. If he does ejaculate too early he'll soon learn to control it and go for a lot longer.

Answer 20

lol - its likely, but tell him not to sweat it, you can do it gain after it will last longer.

Answer 21

Some what early

It is perfectly natural for a man to ejaculate early when it is his first time. But for all men, it's different. If he does, just have more practice and I'm sure he'll last longer. The important thing is to not care though, he shouldn't be worried.  

Answer 22

Babe don't tell everybody i thought we were keeping it a secret.

Answer 23

Yeah, hi, it's Lumbergh again. Can you go ahead and get those TPS reports to me ASAP? Thanks.

Answer 24

LOL unfortunately yes, the good thing is if that happens you can go again in about 15 minutes and it’ll last longer.

Answer 25

He is a virgin and he is worried because he is about to have s*x with you?!?!?!?! what an odd man.

He may well come early but he'll still enjoy it. Wait half an hour and then go again or tell him to knock one off 30 minutes in advance.