Men, how would you like a WOMAN to let you know they are not interested in you?

Question

1. As a sexual partner

2. As a friend

What is the best way for us to articulate it without offending you.

Especially if you are the persistent, oblivious type.

Answer 1

The best way to do it is to flat out say it as soon as she knows. Don't worry about offending me.

Answer 2

tell him and do it early so he dont feel like it was a waste of time. Otherwise just say the you appreciate the interest he taking in you and the reasons why you feel it wont work. If he still persistent that treading into stalker territory

Answer 3

Stop worrying about OFFENDING the man and just do it...

There is no way to avoid offending him. Rejection is offensive.. ALWAYS.. PERIOD. There is no way to reject somone without offending them.

If you don't like this... don't hang around men you don't like in the first place.

This is how I would like a woman to reject me:

"Sorry, you are not my type".

OR

"I want to be single"

OR EVEN:

"F*ck off!!"  I'll take that also...

Be honest.. you are more concerned with conflict than the feelings of the man. Thats clear as day.

Answer 4

Just politely tell us. We like women who are straightforward and honest.

Answer 5

Just say thanks, but no thanks. Men appreciate bluntness over subtly and action over words.

Answer 6

when you talk to him say to him o wow tom you are such a good friend. i wish i could have more friends like you.

Answer 7

tell it how it is, girlfriend.

Answer 8

Just open your mouth and plainly say it. Words are very effective. Don't worry about feelings, we're pretty tough. Just flat out say you're not interested. The worst that could happen is you being called a d**e but we only say that because we're angry.

Answer 9

From a males point of view

I would rather here this more than anything..."I really do appreciate the fact that you are trying to hit on me, and I'm flattered, but HOWEVER, truly I'm not interested!

That would be sensitive to their feeling, but yet getting the point across. Unless their light bulb is really burnt out? God Speed to ya.