Men, once you decide you no longer love your wife, can she win you back?

Question

My husband told me a few weeks ago that he isn't happy and wants a divorce if he feels the same way when our child graduates in two years. I've tried talking to him and changing things up to no avail. Our anniversary was two days ago, he usually gets me a bottle of White Diamond perfume and drinks champagne with me. He didn't even acknowledge it this year. Should I give up and walk away? Or just let it go for a few weeks? Totally confused.

Answer 1

That's a hard one, but if you have two years, make the most of them.  There are a LOT of people on Yahoo Answers who just have the kneejerk reaction to say "Dump him and move on" to every single question they come across.  I think that's lousy, lazy advice.

The only way you will have any peace of mind about this decision is if you can honestly say that you gave it everything you had.  If he's talking about what will happen two years from now, that's a long time for you two to completely turn your relationship around.

You may feel like you're setting yourself up to be even more hurt in two years if it doesn't work out, but believe me, you'll never regret things he does as much as you regret the things you did yourself.  If you want it to work out, give it everything you have and don't give up until it's over.  That's the only way you'll be able to sleep at night.

And don't let anyone convince you to play mental games with him, like moving out to show him what he's missing.  That backfires all the time because even if he does miss you, the way he'll make himself feel better is by stretching out his legs and enjoying the single life.

Answer 2

move out cut all the communication let him see how much he missing