Men: Am I too unattractive for a decent man?

Question

http://www.flickr.com/photos/28891892@N06/

We all know men, even the good ones, go by looks first and foremost.

In you're opinion, how screwed am I?

Answer 1

First of all you are not unattractive, but what you do need is a wardrobe make over and maybe a new hairstyle. The way you look on the outside can affect the way you present yourself to others.Maybe you are attracting a certain type of man because you don't feel good about yourself, believe me clothes and a change of your hair will make you feel   as you truly are beautiful inside and out. And yes i know you want answer from men but i just had to say this.

Answer 2

I hope you're kidding, because you are super pretty...I'll give you a 99% chance

Answer 3

awww..don't down yourself!! your gorgeous! Don't look to hard.. Some wonderful guy will step into your life someday.

Answer 4

Absolutely not. You are a beautiful woman, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.  

Answer 5

You are definitely pretty - I like your lovely, bright smile and how it touches your eyes. Nicely shaped eyebrows - it seems you take care of your face. So I think you definitely have good potential.

Here are some changes I'd suggest. Consider letting your hair loose and grow it longer. You may want to wear more feminine clothes - lighter colors, floral patterns, stripes etc. instead of plain, heavy colors. Think about also wearing cutesy ear rings (big rings, dangling pendants) and also perhaps bangles, bracelets, chain/necklaces etc. All of these things stand out to a guy as being "feminine", which is what marks you are being "different" from us, which in turn is what attracts us to you (rather than to our male friends)

I can tell about your figure, size, attitude etc. from the pic but as long as you have an average or better figure, are easy to approach, nice to people, like to laugh... the usual good things, they should all help.

Good luck!

Answer 6

thats a pretty bad stereotype thinking all "decent" men are shallow, and you are hot, you will find someone

Answer 7

I cannot believe you think you're unattractive. You're really pretty, lovely smile, and look fun. You deserve a fantastic man (no matter how you look) if you are a kind and good person. Nothing more to say. You have a self confidence problem which is probably the reason you attract men you're not interested in. You have to find a way to boost your self esteem, perhaps with a bit of counseling to deal with that issue, because that seems to be the root of this problem.  

Answer 8

Great smile, deep eyes, pretty face. You look like fun to me. your best asset is your smile, when you smile at men I guarantee they'll be looking straight at your great smile and that will win them over before you've even opened your mouth. It sounds like you've got a chip on your shoulder about looks and that is probably why you wont talk to and therefore miss out on the right men.  

Answer 9

awww girl, you are gorgeous :)