Men: How many wives think they are better in bed then they actually are?

Question

My wife totally thinks she better in bed than she is, but if s*x was the main reason to marry I would of never married her.

My question is how many husband's have a wives with an over inflated sexual ego?

I'm guess 80% What do you think too high or too low?

Answer 1

My wife always says I deserve better and that I am too good to her!  I guess that is because I spend more time pleasuring her and spending my attentions on her than she does on me!  Frequency is also another issue, my wife has a very low drive and would be fine with once a month and I am good to go every day! ! !

SO, my wife doesn't think that way!  I guess she is the 20%?

Answer 2

My wife and I are both pretty realistic.  I'm sure she doesn't think she's any better than she actually is, nor do I think I'm any better than I actually am.  Reality can be nice - you should try it.  It's very liberating.

Answer 3

It's your job as a husband to make your wife feel like she's better than she is.  It's also your job to get her to where she's as good as you want her to be.

Answer 4

I feel i am a bit lazy and i don't go all out -only when i really feel like it,  so personally i think i am ok in bed but not the best as i could do loads more i guess...

Answer 5

I think 80% would be close. The same goes for men.

I sleep with enough married women to know that men can be lame too.

We were swingers and I could not believe how many people were terrible in bed.

Most women are too caught up with rules and what they WON'T do to be any good. Either that or they are just not into s*x.

Two key factors make a woman good in bed

1. s**y... you have to be able to exude s**y... an interest in s*x with the look of a woman who will do anything to be pleased.

2. Openness... You have to be open to try new things. Better yet, women have to be the instigators of new things.

If you want to be the best add this third thing.

3. Cravings... The best of the best had one or more cravings in regard to s*x. I am not into bondage but one woman was sooo into it that she would be VERY aroused if she even saw rope or cuffs. It was awesome! Another woman went nuts if she were doing it in a risky place. These women took s*x to a level that I doubt any other woman can compete with.

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Here is how to lower your s*x appeal

1. Infrequency - not often enough.

2. Sensuality - Making it emotional is a real downer... let s*x stay physical!

3. Having too many no-no's - Have some fun and let loose. Don't be such a prude.

4. Thinking things are icky - s*x is wet and sticky and we want women who love the smells and tastes...

5. Hoops - Making us jump through hoops to get you in the mood.

6. Appearance - Keep yourself looking hot. nuff said.

Answer 6

A woman is only as good with her partner as the man communicates his needs and teaches her.  

Answer 7

I don't think I'm good in bed..but my husband says I am so I'm not sure...I don't take pride in it as much as other women do...

Sometimes I get self conscious about it..

Answer 8

Sorry man...my wife is pretty d**n good.  Best I ever had.  And it just keeps getting better.

Sounds like your wife is into s*x so thats great.  I'd just keep the lines of communication open and keep asking for what you want to do.  By the sounds of it your wife won't get freaked out by much.

Answer 9

your fault then for not telling her what you want. when you have s*x you should be saying i like it when you do this or that. show her how you like to be sucked and what positions and stuff you like. try new things and communicate.

these two women above me are just as bad. Why the h**l dont people just say what they want.

Answer 10

Had to comment.....LOL ...that's funny..  Maybe it has to do with the fact that men love s*x so they assume any s*x is great & since a guy can pretty much have an orgasim with every sexual partner she takes it as a cookie! I dunno jus a guess...Oh & most men make comments in the heat of the moment that she takes to heart...

Answer 11

Here's some news for you: a PERSON can not be good in bed.  It is entirely dependent on their partner and how they work with that partner.  Couples can be good in bed, but not individual people.

Answer 12

ha same goes for men my dear.  men think they are GODS in the sack and little do they know how much we fake that ecstasy.

Answer 13

I agree with you, all the women I have been with thought they were the only s*x goddess in the world.  Actually none of them were that good, but when you the s*x king I guess everyone does not compare...LOL.

Answer 14

80% of the time I am putting on a great big act because I want something that involves $$$$$.

I'm not looking to be the best, just looking to not get any grief when those bank statements come in.

There is your answer.

Answer 15

I'm not a guy but I'd probably say 75% mainly because guys won't be honest.  They are simply afraid of hurting the females feelings, which I don't blame them because we do go off the deep end at first but then we usually come around.  I always ask my husband if I'm doing what he likes.  I also don't say "am I good in bed?"  I simply ask him what he would like me to do that way he won't feel like he's attacking me or "hurting my feelings".

Answer 16

My husband constantly compliments me on my "skills" in bed.  I don't think I'm anything special -- but I don't lay there like a log, either. :)

My husband doesn't have an inflated sexual ego either, he thinks he's all right, and I think he's amazing.

Guess it's because we love one another so it makes it special and fun. :)

Answer 17

How many men think that they are better in bed then they really are?

I am getting tired of faking with my husband 9 out of 10 times.

I know that I am a freak and he gets what he needs but I sure wish that he could give me what I need.