Men: In this day and age of 'independent women', do you WANT to take care your woman in a relationship?

Question

And I don't mean..like...buying her bunches of gifts to sweeten her stomach, gas her head up, and pump up the v****a. Is being responsible for your girlfriend or wife something that you WANT to do? Is it something that men NEED to do?

Answer 1

I don't want to be with someone who has absolutely no need for me

I could just get a room mate and buy p**n, it would be cheaper

Answer 2

My man enjoys "taking care" of me, but he doesn't really see it that way.  He works and I stay home and take care of the house and cook, and he says that financially "what's his is mine."  We share, that's all.  And it works.  I don't feel degraded, really- I feel liberated from the pressures of having to work a horrible 9-5 in uncomfortable suits and pantyhose.

Answer 3

sometimes i would cook dinner and clean up and tidy, because i enjoy it. but i dont know if i could do it full-time, it depends on work.

Answer 4

As long as it goes both ways, taking care of your partner is OK, depending on how it's done. For example, being taken care of emotionally and sexually is great, but the idea of being taken care of financially makes me want to retch.

Answer 5

I certainly don't mind doing nice things to her, uh, I mean for her, but I also like the fact that she is independent.  Nothing is more attractive than a woman that can handle her own!

Answer 6

Nah, actually, they got me so F**k'd up I don't want a relationship period.  I have been celibate 3 yrs now and lovin it. Had an incident just last week where a lady at work snapped a spark of excitement for a day but I learned how to control the situation and avoid her like the plague now.

Answer 7

Feck no. I marriied a girl who wasn't too pretty but she'd worked 14 years in banking. - Cash dear fellow, that's all women are worth now; if they can't make it then they're NO use.

Answer 8

I prefer both of us being independent. But everybody like to be taken care of on occasion and I have no problem doing that.

Answer 9

I want to take care of any woman who will appreciate it. But if she starts with that "I'm independent" nonsense.. I will leave her alone to fight her own battles and take care of everything on her own. That's what I do as a man. If you want to be treated like a MAN, I will treat you like a man. However, if you are a REAL woman who wants to be treated as such... then Mike T is there for you baby.