Men: What is something a woman does in bed that really turns you on?

Question

When you are having s*x what do you like? Do you like when she touches herself? What is exciting to you? Honestly! I just want some new ideas. Nothing too sick please!

Answer 1

female masturbation is excessively hot... but what really gets me going is screaming and when I am doing doggy style she reaches back and massages the twins.

Answer 2

My wife loves to be in control. I LOVE THAT! I love it when she is so into it.

What I hate is when other women over exaggerate. TURN OFF!!

Answer 3

I don't get out of my hobbit hole much...but every once in a while I get a little action from an older, more experienced hobbit house wife whose husband often goes on long adventures to far away places...i love it when she runs her hands through the hair on my feet...Ahhhhh....even better then tea and cakes...

Answer 4

Take control, set the pace. Let him do the work to please you. If it feels good to you have him do it to you. Do not allow him his pleasure until your ready.

Answer 5

Next to swallowing, I like a woman to clean her off me with her tounge after we have had s*x.  I also like a woman who likes her own taste and uses my coc*, my finger, or her finger to do the tasting with.

Answer 6

wow all of these answers are so correct! I agree.

I think when a woman is in control men luv that! When she swallows i know guys luv that to cause i also do that. Men luv a very dominant woman that way they don't have to do all of the work. And don't forget a good ********!

Answer 7

A woman touching herself is good, yes. I think I'd say the most exciting thing would be a woman who likes to try new things. Roleplay is good - a woman pretending to be a scared virgin is one that works for me. Another good one is the woman playing seductress - maybe pretend to be Mrs. Robinson.

People are different, so everyone will have different roleplays that they like or don't like. You have to find out what your partner likes and give it a try - just make sure he'll try a roleplay that YOU like, too!  :)

Answer 8

i dunno... tell me because i need some new ideas too. i like getting it from behind and pushing my butt into a mans pelvis so it goes deeper. i guess thats cool!

Answer 9

I'm very visual, so I love having the lights on. Having the lights on and being able to see what I have, is an immense turn on.

That is an excellent starter.

Answer 10

I want more ideas too. My s*x life is great but you can never stop trying to improve it, you know? My husband says he loves when I touch myself, it drives him crazy. Aso, when I just take control, like he's watching tv and I kneel down in front of him and unzip his pants and keep going. lol

Answer 11

My husband was standing there looking for a movie for us to watch the other day and i just got down in front of him, on my knees, unzipped his pants, he looked down and me and i just grinned ... he knew ;) that lead to the couch, then the kitchen counter, then the hall, finally made it to the bedroom (the floor, not the bed) ... what made it so great? it was spontaneous ... it was a lack of self control to primal sexual desires ... it was unexpected but so welcomed ... it rocked (for both of us)!! What turns men on, from my experience? Spontaneity, enthusiasm, letting your primal instincts take over and get soooooo in to it, teasing (i was giving my husband a bj once in his recliner and i knew he was about to blow so, what did i do ... i stood up, i took off my shirt, unbuttoned my pants and walked to the bedroom ... and boy did he follow!! he said it was the best o****m he's had in a while) ... have FUN!! that is key!!

Answer 12

When she yanks my crank  with her back,,,,  door.

Very tight

Answer 13

When a woman grips it tight almost like I'm being milked not all women can do that you know some are just too loose.

Answer 14

Swallows... Seriously that is the hottest and best thing in my humble opinion.

Answer 15

Enrique Iglesias is BACK!!

Hi Isaac!

Answer 16

When a woman is so swept up in the passion that she's totally lost control - that is almost as much of a turn on as when you feel her "O".

Both are fantastic.  And when you get one the other isn't far behind...

Answer 17

Enthusiasm is #1.  I like it best when she seems totally, completely into it and enthusiastic.

Answer 18

I wouldn't pick any one thing... there are two general rules that I hav found that make a woman really good in bed.

1. She is very pro-active in always trying new things.

2. She knows how to look... the body language... the eyes... the tone of voice... I am not talking about 'cheep p**n' here... but a way of exuding s**y.

It's not any one thing you do... it's how you do what you do... the level of intensity... the desire in your breath... the level of need for s*x...

My wife tried to do some things but failed to grasp that HOW she did it was the most important. She 'stomped' around naked one morning and then proclaimed that she had flirted by taking her clothes of and walking around naked... but her body language was very offensive and a real turn off. Anyone could have seen that she was making sure I was being punished for asking for flirtation. But... under a court of law, she could lay claim to the fact that she was naked... but it sucked and I was sooo turned off...

Now, if she had walked around s**y and was behaving like she was aroused... the tiny little nuances that show a woman is aroused... then it would have been hot times 1000.

So, whatever you do... do it with skill, deliberately focusing on making sure you are sending the right body language signals.

If you keep a man satisfied by doing it often enough and mixing it up, he will be yours forever... the opposite is true too.