Men: What would you think of this?

Question

I know this is in men's health and this may not have to do entirely with that, but I really need an honest male response.

Anyhow, how would you feel about dating a really nice woman, but the only sexual activity she would feel comfortable doing is performing oral s*x on you. Nothing else, especially any touching towards her. Would you immediately break up with her? Or would your feelings towards her mind and personality bypass this? Thanks for any replies.

Answer 1

i'd be more than satisfied with that, honestly, it would bring us closer together, as i prefer getting and giving oral s*x over intercourse

Answer 2

You know.. if you aren't ready for s*x, then there is a guy around for you. That isnt going to be a guy like me. I dont mind fellatio but if I can't get involved in exciting my partner..... I don't really enjoy it very much.... Also, I think a guy can sense if you are enjoying yourself... it just isn't exciting if the person going down is not having fun too.

I offer this advice as it is better to abstain than to do something you don't feel comfortable with or enjoy doing. There is no need to worry about finding a man right for you... or having s*x just to keep one on the leash..... there will be teh right guy for you with the same attitude to s*x.... and you can explore it together when you are ready.

Edit:

Perhaps I havent made this clear... as a teenager I had long relationships (you know.. 6 months and stuff) with gals where no intercourse was involved... but what you are proposing is sort of like teasing not so much as pleasing.

Answer 3

i wouldnt break up with you but i would try to convince you to have s*x sometimes..  

Answer 4

Part of my pleasure in s*x is pleasuring the other person.

It would be more difficult for me if she wouldnt allow this but I would respect her wishes

Answer 5

i wouldnt mind as long as your nice. i wouldnt care

Answer 6

well i would try to let her know that i'd think she was Beautiful and that id like to "pay her back" for the oral s*x  

Answer 7

i would break up wit u and i will respect ur way

Answer 8

Well I would be happy to get head, but i may end it after a while.  I mean I would sound like a pig, but I am always looking ahead, to go further.  I may stay with her for a while, getting head and just enjoying her as a person, with hope that may she would change her ways, but I wouldn't be able to have a happy relationship for too long

Answer 9

Some men like myself can't have an o****m from oral s*x! It just doesn't work for some men. Let's be honest, could you stay in a relationship without ever achieving an o****m? Sorry, but I think not!

Answer 10

Nahh. I'd break up.

Answer 11

If she is REALLY special, I would take the time to talk with her to find out why that's as far as she will go.  Maybe our relationship could develop and she could become more willing to have a fuller physical relationship over time, but that would depend on how the relationship developed.  I don't think a relationship between a man and a woman is based solely on s*x, but it IS an imporant part of a "complete" relationship and fellatio is only part of that.

Answer 12

I prefer walking, talking and holding hands first to develop a relationship. Why would you think of lowering yourself to try to please a man sexually this way if you don't even want to be held is someones arms. I'm not going to lie to you as good as oral s*x feels it's far better when I please a woman in the same way. It's a two way street hun.

I can't believe you don't even like a nice kiss.

Answer 13

i would give her a try at first, but if she did,nt want s*x, then what,s the use of having her.

Answer 14

I would probably want to know why you would not want to have s*x i would find your reason then try find a solution to the reason. :)