Men & Woman any suggestions to become more sexual?

Question

I have been with my husband almost 3 years. Married 5 months. I used to drink about every night but have stopped all that before I got married. My husband wants s*x all the time. I myself do not. It feels like a chore and I really don't get much pleasure out of it. He gets s*x about once a month. I know this is totally wrong. I was always super sexual with my ex's but now I just don't care if I do it. I want to be a mother and a wife (no kids yet). Since knowing that, I just have no desire. When I first met my husband I was about 60 pds lighter and working 2 jobs. Now I am the total opposite. Any idea's what I should try? Thank you to all who respond with suggestions!!

Answer 1

You could try a s*x profffesional or talk to him about it.

Answer 2

maybe subconciously you dont feel as attractive as you would like to be, but im sure your husband loves you just the way you are. if you want to feel better about yourself try doing something for yourself every day, paint your nails, go for a walk/run, take an extra long shower...whatever floats your boat; and makes you feel attractive and happy :)

Answer 3

a huge part of a womans sexual urges...

are part of her appearance...

you might jsut feel unattractive and have no urge to have him see you naked

im not sure what to tell you to do...

maybe lose weight and make yourself feel more attractive...

but also... i think if he made you want it more...

then obviously youd want it more...

i had it better in my head just didnt come out that way

Answer 4

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Answer 5

What happen? u know the answer better than anyone.

What happen to your passion for life?

you need to take a really good look at your life(u may like what u see)

and really work on it. If you don't love your husband anymore let him go. it's not fair to you or him.

Sit down a talk to him.

YOU NEED TO STEP BACK INTO YOUR POWER. YOU BRING THE PASSION BACK TO YOUR MARRIAGE IF YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE,(STEP OUT OF YOUR)