My husband and I have been having a bit of a relationship crisis and we've been doing a lot of talking about it and what he has been feeling. One of the things he has been talking about is how he feels at work. There are a lot of male engineers there and some female engineers and managers. It sounds like they (the guys) spend a lot of time in a kind of competitive way, trying to "beat their chests," as he put it, trying to be funny or witty or whatever, competing for female attention and I guess just a "who's on top" kind of thing. Razzing each other, pulling jokes on each other and stuff. I think he has gotten caught up in this (I've seen him do this before when we used to work in the same place). Some of these men sound to me like they are not very nice. They can be sarcastic and say mean things about people. I don't think my husband gets mean like that. But I do think it all sounds kind of immature. He just turned 40 years old this year. I think he is insecure inside. Do you think this is immature for 40? Shouldn't he be thinking more about internal qualities like kindness, giving to others, honesty, being ethical and hard-working, etc.? Why can't he feel good about these things in himself and stop giving a c**p what these other a******s think, and their ridiculous behavior?
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