Men and their friends?

Question

men when you break up with a girl what does this mean? my ex and i are trying the friend thing but its gotten really weird for me. he says half of him wants me back and the other is tired of hurting me. but when i move on he throws fits and asks how much i feel for this man or what have we done? and when i tried to give us another shot he texted yes i do have all these deep feelings for you but we can't act on them i am with someone eles. but he never calls her his gf only says with her. she is also a big secret from everyone cause of her religion and other things. but he proudly shows me off to everyone. i met alot of his friends and have added them on my websites. one of his best friends just added me to his top list and my ex. why do that? a male friend says there is something odd about that. this guy only has a certain num. of people out of his friend's list for this spot. my friend thinks my ex is telling his friends we are hooking back up. idk what to think and my ex just texted yesterday asking if i was still moving to his city (i am) and that he would have to call me on sat.

Answer 1

You need to stop trying to be friends with him.  He is moving on by having a gf and is being completely selfish by not allowing you to move on as well.  Until you have been broken up for a length of time and both given the chance to move on neither of you can really know if you truly want to get back together or not.  Since he's making no attempt to leave the gf and see if being with you is what he wants yet he's stopping you from getting a bf, I'd say you should stop talking so often and move on.