Men cheating is usually womens fault ? Also if you cheat why stay with boring in bed partner ?

Question

When women cheat its usually the man's fault. He couldnt please you in the bed, so you find someone on the side that will. But you love him so you don't leave him. But why when the man cheats it's still only his fault and not the women at all? Why don't women understand that men cheat on you usually cause you suck in bed and that's why he cheated because your boring in bed but he love U so he always coming back or if caught begs to come back ? (PS: If you get cheated on or cheat on somebody move on/ break up please. Obviously they cant satisfy you COMPLETELY/or Doesnt LOVE u COMPLETELY so what the point of ignoring it and stay with them .Your just setting up a hard breakup for your partner... Out. What do yall think ?

Answer 1

People will never get this.

Usually when people cheat is either cuz he is just a BIG cheater or it's the fault of both man and woman.

Every bad thing that you do can lead your partner to cheat.

But really, this are causes yet not excuses, no matter what, promising loves means absolutely no cheating, not even if any of them or both suck.

Answer 2

My and my other schizo personalities think that if someone cheats there is something missing in the relationship.  One should not blame one's partner.  Basically, it comes down to knowing (or not) one's self.  

No one really cheated on me... if he did, I wouldn't know it.  But then again, I AM a fox in more than one way.  And not just in the box, if you get what I'm saying.  ;-)

Answer 3

If the man cheats on his wife, it's because he's a dog.

If the woman cheats on her husband, it's because he wasn't good enough for her in some way.

To be serious (although truthfully what I just wrote often seems to be the case to most people), don't people talk about these issues anymore?

Answer 4

Both genders cheat, but some women feel they should have more leeway with it.

"Well, he wasn't pleasing me..." or some other BS excuse. But of course if a man cheats, he's a dirty pig and there is NO excuse.

Answer 5

This is another one of those "pass the yoke of responsibility" scenarios which women revel in.  Of course it's the man's fault when he fails to remain committed to his woman, but when a woman cheats, it can only be because the man wasn't "man enough"

You hear this claptrap on TV talk shows, often with the mostly-female audience applauding and whooping it up.

makes me sick, i tell you.

Answer 6

Your basic premise(s) are incorrect.

Rarely do either men nor women stray because of sexual incompatibility and/or dissatisfaction.

Most commonly, it is caused by emotional dissatisfaction/discontent.

Answer 7

I think you're ignorant. It is the cheater's fault, he/she should have been able to go to their partner and discuss the issues or ended the relationship. People don't only cheat because of the s*x and sometimes the s*x is great, but something else is in the relationship. It can be both and a man and a woman's fault. I can't even go on about this topic right now, I'm so annoyed with your thoughts.

Answer 8

I think that while the actions of one party in a relationship can leave the other party unfulfilled sexually or emotionally, a person is ultimately responsible for their choices and should be held accountable for their actions.  I can't imagine any excuse that is good enough to justify infidelity.  If a person thinks their relationship is inadaquate, their efforts are better spent trying to rectify the situation. If no solution can be found, the appropriate action is to leave the relationship.

Answer 9

Cheaters have their own issues.