Men.....could you marry a woman who was not turned on by you?

Question

If you were with a woman that you loved and adored like crazy, and she really loved you too, but she told you that she didn't desire you all the much sexually.....would you still want to marry her and spend the rest of your life with her?

(yes I have posted similar questions, please just help me out.)

Thank you!

Answer 1

I think the answer to this is too obvious. s*x is a way for married couples to bond. If you don't have that special attraction to one another from the start, it will not last.Yes, when couples get older they do lose some spark. Just think of how it would be if there were no flame burning at all.

Answer 2

It seems to me that both people in the situation would take a look at the big picture and realize that if you aren't sexually attracted to each other then you might not be the right one for each other.  It is selling the relationship short to try to make it work, when you are aware to start that it isn't going to.

Answer 3

Only if she still took care of my needs, you have to remember - once people get older, married couples tend not to be sexually attracted to each other anyway so this is not uncommon and no reason not to marry - just take care of each others "needs" despite the fact.

Answer 4

its obvious that you are a L*****n in denial. I used to think like you, I thought I could marry a feminine L*****n and we could have kids and raise a "normal" family but I came to realize that an idea like that could never work. When you think about it, it is really selfish and disturbing, you'll be lying to your fake husband, your family, and your innocent children. You seriously only live once, make the best of it.

Answer 5

i dunno itd be awqward in bed and id pretty much need something on the side (i wdnt tho cos im nice)

but ye i would still marry them if i loveed them that much