Basically me and my girlfriend are expecting a baby in like 3 months!
I do try and be supportive but i get spoken to like SH*T most of the time.
Yesterday i got told off for not doing the washing up, even though its me who cooks all of the meals in the house and generally keeps things tidy?
When i ask that maybe i could have some help, my girlfriend says shes tired, which is ok. Then when i work late she goes to the chippy to buy chips because she cant be bothered to make any food...because I'm working late!
I haven't got many Friends to talk to really, so all i get morning noon and night is complaints and conversation about the baby. Which i cant wait to have!
I got called selfish because i have found it all overwhelming and needed to share with my girlfriend my concerns...all she says is!
"you've got it easy, you don't have a baby in you" ( in a harsh tone)
To be honest i don't feel like I'm entitled to have feelings because I'm a guy...and a selfish guy at that...My girlfriend wants to be happy... and for me to do things for her...but cuts me down if i have any problems of my own. I thought couples were supposed to work together?
I have tried to think of ways to make more money for us...but she tells me "IT WONT WORK" so now ive lost confidence in myself when i need all the confidence i can get for our baby!
I know many of you will say its the pregnancy talking but to be honest im not so sure if shes the same person who i used to love, when all she does is take me for granted. I have tried to calmly talk to her but she doesnt take any notice
I don't know what to do?
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