Men engagement rings??

Question

me and my boyfriend recently got engaged (well now hes my finace) but we went and got him a ring too, i know its not the norm but is it okay?

..the reasons we really got him one was bc he wanted to wear it and show that "he has someone" he recently left to an academy and we hardly get to see each other and its something thats always with him, and he wont be back for another 6 months...

he wanted to wear one, and i like that he wants to..

Answer 1

My fiance and I both have engagement rings.  We had a long engagement and it just seemed like a nice way to show our commitment.  Many people find it weird and think we are already married, but just engaged.

Answer 2

Anything is ok as long as you guys are ok with it. What you do in your personal lives is your own business. Some people like to wear rings, others don't; if he wants to wear one - what's the problem?

Answer 3

My housemate has one. His fiancee has a pendant instead.

Answer 4

Of course it's okay. It isn't traditional, but it can be YOUR tradition.

Answer 5

Absolutely okay. My fiance wanted to wear one and I think that is very sweet...it's a great sign of their devotion to us.

Answer 6

There are no laws for this stuff... it's whatever works for you two.

Congrats :)

Answer 7

that's awesome. all men should wear them. why is it that only women have to wear a symbol that we're taken, during engagement, and men walk around with nothing on their hand to show they're in a relationship?

Answer 8

I think that's a really cute idea if you can afford it. I'd let my guy do it.