Men help? Husband has little intrest in me

Question

What can I do? I KNOW he is not cheating, g*y, or any other major issue. He has never been affectionate, so I get that. But its worse lately, and beginning to make me feel like c**p about my appearance, like I should be better than I am. I keep myself looking decent, but I'm not exactly what I was 13 years ago. He never says anything bad about my appearance, but nothing good either. How do I get him to notice me again??

Answer 1

Try buying a new perfume, something relativley expensive, and dressing a little sexier. Be "bad". Show a little flair. Don't do the whole "Oh I want us to be closer so I'm going to try talking more and blah blah.." Just re-invent your look.  

Answer 2

tell him it hurts

sometimes the only way a guy can get it is if we r forward with them

Answer 3

does he have a heavy work load ?....is he more tired than usual ? ....stressed more ?...maybe his testosterone level is lower ? ....always good to have a physical to rule out something he or you may not be aware of.

Answer 4

well i never fell in love but i sure stepped in it one time. thats why i think marriage licenses should be like drvers licenses, that way you have the choice of renewing them every few years. stop begging for his attention! if you love something set it free, if it don't come back hunt it down and kill it.

Answer 5

you should know twhat turns him on by now.

turn him on. make him feel like he needs you more than you need him.

Answer 6

dress uo and go eat out, to the movies buy a nice babydoll n dance for him do sumthin; s**y at home oils, creams handcups understand?