Men hitting women?

Question

Why don't you men stand up for your selves?! I never believed in the whole"men shouldn't hit women" thing. If I was a guy, and some girl hit me, she's got one coming right back to her.You deserve the hit. You should never deal out what you can't take back. If this is supposed to be an equal country,then why do we put up such dumb bounderies?

And if it hurts, that's good because then you will know not to lay your hands on other people agian.

Answer 1

ok ladies. first off. cut the whole womens right bullshit on this one. it has nothing to do with ladies not being able to take it. gentlement just dont hit women. thats thats. if ya want to be smacked around, i suggest ya go find some drunken piece of trash, from the backwoods or the ghetto and have at it. but for us classier guys its just the law.

Answer 2

you're a girl,you don't know frustration that men go through thinking of the law that allows women to hit men but not the other way around.

Answer 3

Well, I agree a double standard isn't okay.

BUT if a guy wasn't actually in danger from her and didn't NEED to hit her to protect himself, I would think he was the bigger person (in a metaphorical sense) if he just defended himself without hurting her and dealt with the situation in some way besides escalating the violence. (Eg. breaking up with her, having her charged with assault, banning her from the establishment...that sort of thing.)  It's not just about men and women - anybody who can keep their cool when someone else loses theirs and not stoop to the other person's level should be congratulated.  

Like this one time in high school a guy decided to pick a fight with my (guy) friend because he thought my friend was trying to flirt with his girlfriend.  As I remember it, he attacked my friend and tried to punch him, and my friend just caught him and held him at arm's length until he gave up and went away.  Sure, my friend was a pretty wiry guy and could probably have hurt the other guy, but then he'd have risked being in trouble for fighting too.  As it was, my friend came off looking cool, and the other guy got laughed at all week as the story went around the school, which was probably more unpleasant for him than any injury my friend would realistically have inflicted if he'd let it turn into a fight.  It's 15 years later, and I'm still impressed.

Answer 4

I see girls hitting their boyfriends at the mall and other stores.  Most of it is just play, but I can imagine when these couples have an argument that the girl will go physical out of habit.

That's when I would give her a sound bare bottom spanking, just to show her who's boss.

Face it, if you can turn a girl's bottom red, she's gonna respect you a lot more.

Answer 5

So if the "girl" was 5 years old, are you saying she has it coming and she should not deal out what you can't take back?  Or would you understand that the child is immature, childish, has anger issues and that to respond to violence with violence will only create more violence.  Some women have the maturity of a 5 year old......a real man understands that the real measure of his character can be found in how often he chooses to walk away.

Answer 6

It's not cuz women "can't take it"

Altought male humans are stronger and weight more, the reason why i would avoid hitting a woman isn't cuz she cant take it>_>....

It's cuz it feels bad...hitting someone smaller than you feels bad and makes you feel like a bad, advantage taking person,.

Of course, if a girl really is fighting against me and it's hitting me 100% on purpose, she should expect response.

Answer 7

youre g*y, be quiet, abuse isnt a funny topic, you need a slap or 2

Answer 8

There is something very, very wrong with your generation that everybody's hitting everybody else and justifying it.  The world will be in serious trouble when you take over.  God help us all.

Answer 9

I hurt men and men hurt me I like to fight it hurts sometimes but its pain it comes and goes and I do it for the fun of it!!!!!

Answer 10

Like women, men too are programmed.  One of our primary objectives is not to hit a woman.  YOU women and our fathers, etc tell us this constantly since we were in the womb...

Answer 11

Right on. The idea that women can't take it has always annoyed the c**p out of me. If you're dumb enough to dish it out, why not?

Answer 12

And you're saying this because so many equally sized and strong women are just walking up to men and hitting them, where you live?

That's soooooome neighbourhood.

Troll.

Cheers :-)

Answer 13

Um.. Women shouldn't hit but when men hit a women it hurts so much more. They could kill a girl just by pushing them with all of there strength. They could bang there head of the floor and die.

Answer 14

The media is full of instances where women hit, slap, or beat men.

Where are the feminists demanding equality?

Where are the feminists demanding that 50% of all Hollywood movies show women being hit?

Feminists say they want equality, don't they?

Oh, sorry. I forgot. Feminists have never wanted equality. They say they do, but their action speak differently.

Answer 15

the girl shouldn't of hit the guy in the 1st place.

Answer 16

I'm fairly certain that if I hit my husband, he would hit me back, so I've never tried it.  I certainly see no reason why a man should allow himself to be used as a punch bag by a woman.

Answer 17

I don't WANT to hit women. And besides, if a man does hit a woman, he is seen as a weak, pathetic man.

Answer 18

I'm really not comfortable with the idea of me punching out a woman. However, anyone who causes me indignity is in a world of trouble. It would require some serious antagonizing to get me to fight a woman.

Most of these answers show how little women know about the honour code that many men follow. To gentlemen, fighting or hitting a woman is embarrassing.

Answer 19

let me tell ya s'thing.  the court's think the women are victimized , poor pathetic , ladie's?  i had to do 6 month's of wife beating classe's at $50 a week for raising a fist to hit a woman and never touched her.  WHAT A COUNTRY !!!!

Answer 20

If you are were a guy, unless you were a scumbag, I can state with confidence you would not hit the woman back.  Men are programmed their entires lives to believe that it is wrong to hit women.  You don't see it because you haven't been subjected to that conditioning, just like men probably can't understand some of the things women are conditioned for their entire lives.

Answer 21

No man should ever lay his hands on a woman unless he fears for his life.If a woman punched me a few times I would just bear hug her so she couldn't hit me and then talk her out of her temper tantrum,but if she rushed me with some sort of weapon like a baseball bat I might have to use force to get the bat away from her and then I would just do what I stated earlier untill she snapped out of it....

Answer 22

Here's my reasoning.  I don't try to harm people.  My wife gets emotional all the time.  If I can't "fix" a problem right away she thinks "I don't care" then she'll yell, scream, call me names, hit, kick, bite, scratch etc etc.  The thing is there is no point where my life is in danger or where I'm under any real threat of harm.  The only point of hitting would be self defense, but if I'm under no real threat of harm it's unnecessary.  In fact the main challenge is not harming her.  If a punch or kick looks like it's going to do actual harm they do need to be blocked, as she actually is pretty athletic, but other than that I keep my hands to my side.  Also if she's trying to choke, or to throw heavy things then restraining may be in order until she settles...the walk away thing is not wise if she's crazed and throwing things with kids in the house.  Still, does this require hitting? NO  All I have to do is wrap my arms around her and hold her until she settles down and we can talk sense.  This is a situation to handle, not to react to.  Hitting is reactionary and damaging.

Answer 23

Is "don't hit anyone, unless it's in self-defense" too much of a concept for anyone to grasp?

I don't hit women.  I also don't hit men.  I don't have to make a gender (or race, or eye color, etc.) judgment before I decide not to act like like a gorilla.

Answer 24

I believe violence is a measure of last resort, irregardless if the aggressor is male or female.

   But if I feel my life or physical safety is in jeopardy I will use what ever force I deem reasonable to defend myself as described by the law.

Answer 25

ja thats my philosophy. im a bloke btw.

Answer 26

I think if you go toe to toe with anyone and throw a punch you should expect the thought to be reciprocated. If I hit my husband like I were a man Id hope he hit back, he never would but I would if I were him.

No one should hit anyone else in a relationship(unless of course your both just kinky)