Men how do you feel when you find out that your ex is pregnant by another man?

Question

ok, for example say you where dating a girl and a year or 2 later after the both of you broke up, you then find out she is now pregnant of course by another man how does that make you feel? That someone that you once loved or cared for is currently expecting a child with someone else?

Answer 1

I gotta say, I lol'd at most of these answers. I really wouldn't care too much. I mean, I guess I'd be happy for my first ex, but as for my second... I'd feel bad for her kid.

Answer 2

so. but maybe she'll leave me alone now.

Answer 3

Are we suppose to feel something?

I guess I would feel relief. Like the monkeys off my back type of thing.

Answer 4

You need to seek counseling to work on your unresolved issues regarding your ex.  She has obviously moved on so should you.

Answer 5

i wouldnt care

Answer 6

Ex, some part of the past, is an ex ! a mature view would be not to feel anything negative about it!

Answer 7

I'm not a man, but your question would only matter if that guy still had some sort of feelings for his ex. Other than that, he wouldn't care.  

Answer 8

id feel sorry for the child  

Answer 9

I would think what a lucky man to have a child with my EX

Answer 10

I'm not a guy, but I am pregnant with someone elses' and I haven't told my ex- yet about it... I know that he wouldn't like the idea because he used to really want to have a baby with me, but we never did. Now that I am, I know him very well that he would really feel sooo bad and would even feel offended by the fact that I got pregnant with someone else. Even if the ex would say I don't care, I know deep inside, it is going to hurt them but at the same time realize after that you guys are not really meant for each other.

Answer 11

Her choice, her problem!  You gotta feel for the kid, however!

Answer 12

What a woman's point of view, my x,husband, of not very long had a new baby in April. He has now since married the mother of the child, making it his 3rd marriage in less then 9 years. Well maybe less then that we were together for almost 6 and it has been almost 2 years since the finalization of the divorce and it turned out that he had not been divorced from his first wife as long as what he had told me. Anyway back to the question at hand, it didn't bother me, I mainly hoped that he would be a better person then what he had been previously and grow up and be a dad, a real dad. I let that go along time ago, an x is an x for a reason and it shouldn't make you feel anything to find him or her is having a child with someone else. You know people worry about things that are over and done with and that have no dire impact on their current life. Worry about what is going on now, not what happened in the past.  

Answer 13

we broke up!!

I wouldnt care if she got hit by a bus