Men in jamaica need to step up i cannot find any man (sorry to who ever i offend just my opinion)?

Question

Or am i looking in the wrong places

Answer 1

Maybe you can search in www.match.com

I'm sure you'll find some nice men there, either Jamaican or other citizenship...

Answer 2

Amen Vanitee!  

Women run that country from the inside, but governMENt take all the credit.  Every community...every church...every social action has women at the core.  I spend time there, and never fail to be amazed.  Both at the women's strength and the men's collective failings.

And no - not ALL men there, but enough to make it statistically true.    

Answer 3

Perhaps y'all can let us know how you DEFINE 'good man'. Every woman's definition of 'stepping up' is different. For some women, if a man cant pay their woman's apartment rent, light and water bill AND phone bills (land line and cellular), then he is not their 'type'. Others will 'straight up' target the 'good men' who buy cars for thier 'previous/other' women...

There are Jamaican women for whom, a Range Rover must be in the picture some where. Some will settle for a CRV.

I must admit that, some women don't care if their man is a 'walk-foot' joe. Its about 'what is in his heart', etc.

So what are YOUR requirements?    

Answer 4

Not only in Jamaica but in the U.S also.  You are not alone.  Believe me.

Answer 5

so  true good men r hrd to find to me anyway *sigh*

Answer 6

Mommy me and u in a di same situation

dem need 2 step up inna life

Answer 7

I have to answer this question and disagree with you. I am Trinidadian and my first bf was jamaican. I lived on campus in jamaica and he introduced me to everything jamaican and made me feel like I was home while I lived in Jamaica and now I am happily married and my husband is Jamaican and he is a very good man. RESPONSIBLE, LOVING, CARING. He takes care of everything and we are so very happy. he is my best friend, he is everything to me. THERE ARE GOOD JAMAICAN MEN OUT THERE. Just an example: I have 6 other cousins my age group, we all got married around the same time, they are all married to Trinidadians and they have problems. Some husband drunkard. Some husband cheating. All sorts of unnecessary problems and I am indian, my husband is afro jamaican and we are soooooooo very happy. Just letting you guys know there are good Jamaican men out there  

Answer 8

That is a common situation for many Jamaican women... the man dem short and we plenty.

I think we should start making our own selves happy and not pursue men too much. If we can be single and happy we will be more attractive and perhaps meet more people doing things we like.

Answer 9

Maybe you are looking in the wrong place,

I think that men local and abroad is the same thing.

Its not isolated to Jamaican men, men on the whole are lacking in may ways. I think that a unique issue with Jamaican men, is the multiple families. That is ALL too common and in my opinion disgusting.

Why is it a Jamaican man must have a million different children with a million different women and none of dem know bout each other????

Girl, I am thinking the best thing for you to do is look outside the box, and try another island, or race etc... since you are having an issue with Jamaican men.

Answer 10

It's d**n shame, ah helleva rass shame, such ah beautiful lady an no man fi har, an ah live so close to yuh an ah neva know, ah wud ave offer mi services, limited or fully.

Yuh know wha, ah tink is bad luck, bad mind or OBEAH.

Some body nuh waan see yuh happy.

Anywoo mi ave on mi purple hawaii shirt an mi orange bellas pants, mi dunlap crepe an mi green bukkas cap, hot out, ah come up di road, yuh caan miss mi, mi bigwheel perfume ah lead de way.  

Answer 11

u aint offending me hun.but its true they do need to step up.jamaican men can loveto playto much which gets on my nerves.and im sorry to say they always causing drama.yyyyyyy????its like it wid all men.they r jus made differently to us women.dont care attitude dats my opinion.u r looking in the right places its jus that these men probably dont have the same intrests as ya self.look for aman dat likes the same thing u like.(same intrests)but other than that man is man.god plse send dis lady some 1 nice to make her smile.good luck.pinkssssssssssssssss