Men please help me!?

Question

me and my ex split up nearly 3 weeks ago it was his decision hes got the house and everything else he is even sleeping with someone else already i have walked away with nothing i have never done nothing wrong to him and always done everything for him but every time i ask to sort our stuff out he arranges a time and then when it comes down to it he goes out and does something else why is he being like this once iv got my stuff i am out of his life for good and i have made this very clear so whats his problem please give me some insight to why because i am very confused

Answer 1

Give him a definite date and if he lets you down go to the police.

Answer 2

Maybe he does not want to let you go, he`s scared of you removing the final link between you two (your kit).  

Answer 3

Seems like you have been more than reasonable. If he does not immediately sort this out with you in a reasonable and mutually agreeable way, ask him if he would prefer to deal with a solicitor. He is after all in a very vulnerable financial position.

Answer 4

You sound to good for him and in the long run he may realise this but if you were to get back together is it worth the worry about him doing it to you again . I wouldn't walk away with nothing you put alto into it to and therefore you should get half of all . I wish you good luck and i hope you find happiness beyond your wildest dreams . Stozzer

Answer 5

Send a few heavy's around, when you've got your stuff, get the boy's to knock seven colours of shite out of him. He's a bad man and you are better off without him love.!!

Answer 6

He sounds a bit of a jerk.

I think he is trying to keep you hanging on in case the new relationship falls through. He may want you as a back up just in case.

If he wont let you have your stuff, you may have to go round when he's not going to be in and remove all your stuff then.

Sorry you split up but this sort of thing happens all the time, you just have to get on with your own life now and forget him.