Men would u break up with a girl when u found out she couldnt cook or clean

Question

Men would u break up with a girl when u found out she couldnt cook or clean

Answer 1

Does she possess any other talents?

Answer 2

I don't think there is any skill to the cleaning part so Id have to say that is attitude driven. Now that kind of attitude would absolutely be a red flag to me because I doubt it stopped just with cleaning. I think I would be probing MUCH deeper.

Answer 3

You cannot possibly be serious!  All girls know how to cook, its part of a life skill instilled in them by their mother and grandmothers.  Perhaps if she was not as fortunate to learn how to cook, then he will take it upon himself to educate her on completing the task, assuming that he is capable as well.  =P

Answer 4

Personally, I wouldn't marry a man that couldn't cook or clean.

Granted, I do both well but I think that these are basic life skills that one should grasp before leaving high school.

Answer 5

You can learn these things at any point in life. I was a great  housekeeper when I meet my husband but a terrible cook. I learned to cook and he put up with taste testing. I learn to cook new things all the time. However other things in Life are not so easily taught or learned

Answer 6

I'm not a man, but I'll answer this question.  If she lived on her own and couldn't cook or clean, that's her problem.  But if she expects that at some point in the relationship, that we'd move in together, she better learn how to do something.  I want someone to be an equal partner, but we wouldn't be equals if we didn't share the cooking and cleaning.  If she wasn't willing to learn, yes, I would break up with her because it's obvious we want different things in our relationships.

Answer 7

Just casual dating? No..

But I would never marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook, clean and do housework

Answer 8

Surfagirl- Not all women know how to cook, trust me.

How bad is it?  If she can't do something as simple as sweeping, I'd have second thoughts about her.  If you mean cleaning to Martha Stewart levels or cooking at a level that rivals Bobby Flay I think I can give that up.

Come to think of it I don't want someone who wants the house as clean as Martha Stewart anyway.

Answer 9

maybe because I need someone to do those things for me, but I would feel bad about doing so.

Answer 10

maybe.  i am a horrbile cook and hate cleaning!!!!!!  you dont want to see my room.  i keep my house looking decent but my room is a disaster.  

Answer 11

That depends on if she is a total slob or not i dont mind cooking at all or minimal cleaning. Personally i love cooking though so that would not make a bit of difference to me.  

Answer 12

Yes, I wouldn't want to be Mr. Mom. Not to be chauvinist or anything. I just feel that women should play their traditional role. Same for men, but theres nothing wrong with switching that around alittle. Its great if men do some of that stuff and for women to work. However, I would only breakup with the girl if there was a chance of marriage.

Answer 13

My husband didn't.  I don't think he minds that I'm no good at cooking, but my lack of interest in cleaning has been a source of irritation to him (he is much more houseproud than I am).  I make more of an effort these days though.

Answer 14

That's just absurd.  My 10 year old can cook and clean.

Personally, I wouldn't want to date someone who lacks basic life skills.

Answer 15

No.  

Answer 16

Yes, I hate doing those things.

Answer 17

Couldn't and Wouldn't... 2 different things all together.  If she couldn't but is willing to learn, then she's a keeper.  Now, if you wouldn't cook or clean, I'd tell her to throw you back in the ocean as well.  More fish in the sea and all that...

Answer 18

No, that is nothing serious like cheating.

Answer 19

Whatever you do don't look in the closet!!!!!!!