Men: would you move your wife accross the country at 7 months pregnant?

Question

Just want some opinions. My husband moved me accross the country at 7 months pregnant 90 miles away from his parents (who I don't really like), and 2,000 miles away from my family. I didn't know anyone out there except for his parents and had to leave my job and all my friends. He says he did it for his job, but I've been assured by his former co-workers that his old job wasn't in any kind of jeopardy. The new job was a little better opportunity, but no more money. Anyway, I have since left him. Am I being rational? I expressed to him that I REALLY didn't want to move way before he did it.

Answer 1

your decision to leave is the best you could have done. he had no right to move you so far away from your family and friends when your pregnant and possibly emotionally unstable. your supposed to have the people you love around during this time to help you through before, during, and after the pregnancy. why did he isolate the two of you? does he really value his job over his wife and unborn child? he's ridiculous. go back home to your family and friends who really care about what's best for you AND the baby.

Answer 2

I have read some of your former questions and I agree with you. "The Mrs" You said that everyone has free will - what was she suppossed to do if her husband told her that they were moving? Her will told her that she wasn't going to move and her husband said something completely different so they each went with their "will". Not all husbands are like yours. Some husbands only dominate their wives until the wives make a stand (which I did). Good Luck to you and

I hope that if your husband doesn't move back with you that you become contented and move on with your life.

By the way...I do agree that a marraige is sacred and that you should stay with your husband but I totally disagree that the husband is the Boss. So again good luck and don't listen to all the nay sayers.  

Answer 3

I've moved when I was 8 months pregnant.  Family and friends didn't matter as much as supporting my husband.  My sympathies to your husband.

Answer 4

You divorced him for moving?  Your a nut case.  Obviously there were problems before all of this.  And "moving you" what are you a table?  Aren't you an intelligent adult with free will?

Answer 5

lol-- 'the Mrs' is so right,   you knew you were moving you should have discussed it then, go back to him you have no reason to leave him,

  Another woman using her unborn child as leverage to bring him to his knees, it won't work, he'll just find some young girl with no fat belly.

Answer 6

I understand your frustration. However this is your husband. If you truly love him you would not leave for something so small. I am a true believer that the man is the leader of his home and if he felt it right to leave you have to have enough trust in him to know he made this decision for a good reason. You may not see it now but you may see it later. Love your husband, love him while you have him. Don't leave him because he rearranged some travel plans. Marriage a blessing it maybe hard sometimes but it is a blessing. Go back home to your husband and raise your family together.

Answer 7

Home is where the heart is.  When you're in love and committed it shouldn't matter where you are or end up as long as it's together.