Mental breakdown, please help now. Very angry, sad, but mostly angry?

Question

i'm 16, suburbs of a major city

my parents and i got into an extremely heated argument

about allowing me to go to the city with friends

it ended in my dad and i physically pushing and swearing at eachother

i'm a good kid, i don't get into drugs (anymore), never alchohol, i get good grades, and i ahve extremely high morals.

aparently this means jackshit to my parents

because my brother is in to many drugs, and much alchohol, gets bad grades, and has low morals. he's nice and cool, but all the previous things are also true about him

Here is my dilema. I am not dumb enough to get into drugs, or sneak into the city w/o letting my parents know, or get into alchohol, or give up on school. unfortunately this doesn't work to my advantage, because if i did these things, i would no doubt be happier

but my morals don't allow me to

what should i do

i'm now grounded for a month, which sucks especially because i have a date this weekend with a girl i've liked for a while

i really really need moral direction from the general public(you guys)

and options on how to deal with my situation

please help,

thanks for reading this far

Answer 1

why your parents weren't letting you go to the city.

what kind of parents do you have- mean do they have good morals or ..

it's good that you have good  morals (plz stay that way)- we need more ppl with good morals esp. the young adults

but pushing and swearing at your father won't be called good moral. if you want your way - just need to convince better.

since you are grounded-  think through for yourself.

and again don't sneak for your date- just postpone it. stop getting this angry for situations like these, everyone gets into an argument like this now and then.  

Answer 2

Honestly, just sit down and have a heart to heart with your parents. Don't drop out of school or get into drugs. You're better than that. Just grow up, and make sure your parents know it. After all, you're only 16.