Met this guy online.. What should i doo HELP PLEASE:)?

Question

Right, ive been speaking to this guy for about a year now online. Im 16 hes turning 18 soon he's one of the nicest people i have ever spoken to! I no he's who he says he is because ive seen pictures of him, seen him on webcam, spoke to him on the phone and through texts, speak to his auntie online when he's at hers seen her on webcam aswell. I really want to meet him because he only lives about 45 mins away from me, when i do i will meet him in a public place even though i know he's gonna be the same person i no online. Im just worried because hes seen loads of pics of me but just not seen me on webcam because i havent got one. Do you think he will see me different in person??

Answer 1

I think that the best thing about meeting someone online is to get to know them first before you see them. So he obviously already likes you for your personality. Unless he turns out to be a big jerk you will proably be fine, he has seen pics so its all good.  

Answer 2

I think you'll be okay...but, for the first meeting. I really think you should go the extra mile and bring an adult, like a parent with you. Just in case. I would worry for you if you were my kid.  

Answer 3

If i was you i would leave it.

Yes, you've seen him on web cam and you know he isn't a fake, but you don't know what he's like in real life. He could be putting on a show for it.

Answer 4

actually no, he will recognise you according to what he knows about you as well as your features - if you've given him a recent clear picture.

sounds like you have the right idea about meeting in a public place. Tip: arrange for a friend to ring you or text you 25 minutes after you meet, then say" I need to pick up Alice from the mall in 12 minutes(if you're not comfortable)or 30 minutes(if you are).Or get a friend to swing by and pick YOU up to take you somewhere else.That ends your first meeting neatly but gives him the chance to arrange another meeting if he wants to immediately. If not, say"well, see u online" and walk!