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Question

if you're in middle school or you've already been through middle school im guessing you would understand the question im about to ask....

i have had alot of crushes on different guys and i seem to be the only person who hasnt had a boyfriend or my first kiss and what not

i dont really know what to think of it

maybe im just not comfortable enough around boys yet...

plus most the boys in my school only like girls who are cheerleaders blonde popular or loud and obnoxious

im none of those

i have alot of friends but theyre mature for 8th grade

hmmmm

well if you know how i feel or you have good advice please answer

thanks

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Answer 1

I&#039;m a senior in high school and still haven&#039;t kissed a guy before. It doesn&#039;t bother meee. I love to mess with guys. Like, just let them fall for you and let them carry your books around and stuff. But if they get too serious, avoid them. ;)

You may not even be ready for a boyfriend, hun. When you are, you&#039;ll know it. By that time, you will know more about guys, how to talk to them, etc. I can promise you that even though you&#039;ve never had a boyfriend, there&#039;s nothing wrong with you. All girls worry about that at some point, then they get over it. You&#039;ll be fine!

Answer 2

not all guys are into cheerleaders trust me. you&#039;ll find someone who actually likes you for who you are, and if you have to wait then sometimes it can be better that way so you can experience your first boyfriend when you are mature so you don&#039;t do anything stupid. take your time, don&#039;t rush yourself.

Answer 3

Don&#039;t worry about it. I was a &quot;Plain Jane&quot; my entire jr. high/high school life and kept to myself. Never had a bf, or a kiss, never went to dances, etc. I wasn&#039;t popular and now I&#039;ve finally grown into my skin [now at age 23]. A lot of people from high school see me now and notice me more, than from high school. Hahah.

School sucks, just have fun with your friends. Don&#039;t sweat the small stuff cos eventually you all leave and lead different lives.

In the end, you&#039;ll be the one to laugh in their faces..

Answer 4

HEY!

ya i TOTALLY know what you mean.

In fact when i was in middle school some girls already lost their virginity!

I&#039;m a sophomore now and i still feel as if I&#039;m not as &quot;experienced&quot; as my friends are.

You&#039;ve probably heard this 319381298 times, but just because your friends are doing stuff, doesn&#039;t not mean you have to do it too. What you do makes you.. YOU. Some girls just mature quiker than others and there is no probalem with that, but there are some girls that &quot;try&quot; to act more mature than they really feel just to be in with a &quot;click&quot; or a certain group of people.

If you&#039;re no a cheerleader, or loud, or obnoxious, then thats fine!

I may not know you in person but let me just tell you that you&#039;re a great person. Be YOU. Thats how you&#039;re going to be happy in life; satisfy yourself and make yourself happy.

i&#039;ve been through the whole &quot;peer-pressure&quot; thing. It&#039;s hard, i know but you gotta have the strength to not give in to it.

i&#039;ve noticed in my school that the people who have &quot;matured&quot; faster as in having s*x, and drugs, and partying a lot are the girls who are &quot;known&quot; BUT YET considered as the &quot;s***s&quot;

just make sure you hang around the right crowed and be yourself.

=D

Answer 5

Well... you should try to not think about it.  You should just focus on being yourself and be who you are. You will get guys to hit on you soon. Just, not right now.  And you are not alone when you said you have never had your first kiss.  Most of my friends haven&#039;t kissed either and they are popular.  But some of mine have.  It just depends on how fast you mature in your emotions.  So if you aren&#039;t comfertable with guys right now, then just let them be in your life and don&#039;t get a boyfriend because you feel you have to.  And I do know how you feel.