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My bf joined the army in April and I've waited while he has been in boot camp and AIT. About 4 weeks into AIT he started talking to some girl from his class and I noticed he started treating me different they talked on the phone every night and I questioned him he said they were just good friends, well a week or 2 before he left for airborne he told me that his feelings weren't the same for me anymore that he tried to find them everyday and that he didn't want to break up he needed time to get his head straight and he thinks this is something we can get through. He is at airborne now and I don't know how to act with him or if he really loves me or not anymore I think this girl he meet has alot to do with are problems he still talks and texts her all the time but she is in WA do to be deployed and he is in GA and then coming home. I don't know if I should keep fighting for him or just give up I gave up everything for him we have been together 3 years and before he left he said he wanted to marry me and hoped I was in it for the long haul and was so happy I was sticking with him. How do your feelings change that quickly after only 4 weeks, how can he fall for her when he doesn't know anything about her. I really need some help what do I do stop fighting. Also I found texts and VM from her calling him baby and telling him he loves him and misses him so there not just friends. He says he can't help that she has feelings for him but he isn't going to stop being her friend. HELP I don't know how to act when I talk or text him and I'm sick of walking on egg shells and waiting for him to figure it out.
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