Miscarrage? not over it?

Question

i had a miscarriage 10week ago and still not got it, i think about the baby i would have had every day,i was 10 weeks and it would have been my 3rd, is there some help i could get i just dunno, I'm just still SO sad and everyone thinks I'm over it and don't wanna talk anymore

Answer 1

I had two baby boys that I miscarried. One was at 18 weeks and the other at 14. It was really hard and I think about them all the time. What gets me through it was my faith. It says in the Bible that God knew the prophet Jeremiah before He formed him in the womb. (Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations" (Jeremiah 1:4-5).

I know that my babies are in heaven and I will see them again one day. For some reason God just wanted them to go straight to Him. Yous should find someone to talk to because you need to be healthy for your baby girls. If you don't talk about your feelings, it will be very hard to move on. Hope this helps :)

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about that! If it helps, I know exactly how you feel. I lost my identical twin boys at 16 weeks and had to deliver them, and it took about a year for me to get over it. I still wasn't over it, but it was hard getting excited when other people had babies. I know that sounds selfish, but it really can be a reminder of what you lost. Then, I was pregnant again and lost it at 10 weeks. So....I don't know what kind of help you might need. But, you should definitely focus on your girls and be very thankful for them! Think of all the women out there who have no kids and are feeling completely discouraged after unsuccessful pregnancies! At least you know you're able to have children, and you can always get pregnant again and possibly be blessed with a boy! Or even another girl. I hope that helps.

Answer 3

I am really sorry about your loss i know exactly how you feel i had a miscarriage in March and I'm still not over it especially this month i was due 09-28-08 it still really hard i think about it all the time. im sure there is help for this kinda pain contact your dr. and they figure something out for you. and again I'm sorry.

Answer 4

I'm not sure if anyone ever gets truly over the loss of a child, no matter when that loss occured. I had a miscarriage a year and a half ago...I still think about that baby. I was blessed with a healthy baby 6 weeks ago, but I still think about the baby we lost & I always will. There's nothing wrong with thinking about/missing your baby. Make sure you talk to someone about it though, they may not realize that you're hurting as badly as you are & it will help you to get your feelings out in the open. Hang in there, my thoughts are with you.