Miscarriage disappointment?

Question

well last month i just knew it was my month and turns out it was. i found out i was pregnant 16dpo through a blood test but unfortunately three days later i lost it. this makes my fourth miscarriage. all three times i have tried to conceive i have had miscarriages first. i thank god i have the two beautiful boys i have but the feeling of wanting to have my new husbands baby is outstanding. so i ovulated again about 4 days ago so hopefully this one sticks. any kind words would be nice

Answer 1

im sorry hun i added u on messenger if u wanna chat about it ive miscarried one time already and we r still trying for one baby dust to u and ull get ur wish when the time is right.

Answer 2

You and I have the number of miscarriages in common. I also want to have new husband's baby but are having problems. My daughter is 18 years old but we are young.

The feelings of elation can be so wonderful and then to find out that a miscarriage is impending or unexpectedly happens it turns devastating. I wish you only the best of luck with your having stickiness that lasts a whole nine months!

I ovulated last Monday and am on pins and needles waiting to test and think everything is a symptom, which is way too early.

Just know that you are not the only one experiencing this. If you want, you should join Getting Pregnant. It is a Yahoo group and there a quite a few women on there TTC and have so much knowledge. I am a member and highly recommend it. They are there when you have a good day and when you have a bad one. At one time, someone on that board has experienced what you are going through.

Answer 3

Just keep practicing!!! Have you gone to the doctor to ask why you are miscarrying?? Maybe the times just not quite right. You'll get. Practice makes perfect!

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!

Answer 4

I am so sorry to hear that, and I do know what you are going through.  I've had 2 early miscarriages.  Now I get a feeling of dread every month as I reach for the test.  I am afraid to be disappointed with another BFN, but also scared to get a BFP only to start bleeding a week or two later again.  After the second one, I went to the doctor and we found that I have a progesterone deficiency that is keeping me from carrying.  It is treatable.  If you haven't been to the doctor yet, I suggest you go for some tests to see if they can figure out what's going on.  I know that about 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, but 4 in a row is too much for anyone to have to deal with and there may be a reason for it that the doctor can help.  Good luck and SSBD!

Answer 5

so many women have miscarriages and they keep trying. Oftentimes they just get lucky. You will too... I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers