No one can be to experienced in relationships so I am having diffaculty figuring this one out. I ride (bicycles) with a group of people roughly my age group. There is a women who rides with us and she is very pleasant and freindly, she is married and makes sure you know. When I ride I am a free spirit and say what is on my mind and she never seemed to mind, I figured if she didn't like what I say she could ride away or whatever. One rule of cycling is that being PC is not a priority and sometimes the endorphins take over.. Of late she has made comment through others that she finds one or two of my comments "not right". So, I try to ride away from her but then get comments from her about not being sociable. Now, after the ride we have a dinner at the local resteraunt. Where ever I sit she finds me and sits down next to me. She gets very close, and I can not understand why, as when I ride of course I get an aroma like most men do. I find the fact she like the closeness a little unseattling but it doesn't bother me to any great extent. Of recent, the club is planning a ride to a location then and overnight stay and back. She has gone out of her way to ensure that I go and stay the night. She says that I should have my wife meet me there and that she is having her husband meet her there.
I am perplexed by all of this. I find her a very nice and charming person, but how am I to take all of this. I know what I will say to her but I just want to know why she is doing all this.
Please a very good and well thought out answer would be appreciated.
Thanks
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