Mm kinda .. sexual problem?

Question

I asked a couple of days ago, but i would like to know something .. if i can have s*x now because i had abortion 2 weeks ago, like 15 days ago, if its safe now to have s*x since my bf is insisting and its becoming a problem.. and my doc is out of the city and i will visit another one but i need ur opinion.

( no need to say about infections or murdered a kid or whatever coz i know what i did, or about the infection i just need mature opinions )

Answer 1

im sorry but he does not love you and you will realize that later on on your relationship because if a man really likes you he would wait for you. oh and you deserve to feel the same wway that poor baby felt i hope that god forgives you for what you have done and i agree with the girl that said that you should just stop having s*x you are so dumb hopefully you get to feel like the same way that your son or daughter felt you ****** stupid *****

Answer 2

If you are not bleeding it should be o.k., but I would still wait a bit. After a birth and miscarriage you should wait till you are fully healed so i would think the same applies to an abortion. Personally it would not matter if my husband or boyfriend wanted s*x and was making a big deal out of it, this is about you not him and I believe he should be a bit more concerned about your well being than s*x. In the meantime there are a lot of other ways to please each other, but I still think he is a bit selfish and inconsiderate.

Answer 3

Ok first of all did this unexpected baby not teach you anything.

HELLLLLLLOOOOOOO! Don't have s*x unless you're ready to take care of a baby next time.

s*x comes with soooooo many things.

How could something like this not even make you stop and think like, "Oh ****! I really had to kill a baby just to please my boyfirend or myself."

Like no matter what goes down you still gotta live with the fact that you killed a baby.

Not the person who did the abortion on you but you yourself because you desided to do this horrible thing.

I'm soooooo sorry but this makes me mad how you could do something like that and then just worry about having s*x with your boyfriend.

Like does this not make you feel anything at all?!

If you still wanna talk, or even tell me off.

Feel free.

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Answer 4

Physically you'd be fine to have s*x provided there's no pain, discomfort or bleeding.

Though you and your boyfriend clearly are both idiots, so please keep your legs closed; for the sake of humanity.

Answer 5

it seems u understand ur problem, if u feel relaxed and u can continue .. u may have sexual intercourse use a condom , contact a doc first dont listen to anybody..

for those who write stupid and stuff like that dont think ure smart..

she already mentioned she doesnt want to know about killed a baby or whatever i think she  didnt have another CHOICE!

jesus wtf!!!  

Answer 6

i think you should wait about 6 weeks

Answer 7

Well i would get an opinion from one doctor and then when your other doctor comes back hear their opinion. I think that you should go with your heart mainly. I know that's a little story lineish but that is what i would do

Answer 8

I'm sorry you were faced with the decision.

I do want to say that I think its insensitive of your boyfriend to 'insist' on having intercourse and it becoming a problem. Your body just had a major event happen to it.

Generally two weeks is when a couple can presume sexual intercourse. However, that is general and does not apply to every woman.

I really recommend not having intercourse until your doctor gives you the clear.

Your bf is going to have to wait... your health comes first.

Answer 9

well as the termination is the same as having a D&C then I would think it should be fine. You should know how you feel; it maybe you in need of a grieving for what may have been (if it had been the right time) but as a girl and one who has had those (pregnant) hormones in the body you will possibly suffer some sort of balancing needed. you could always try a session of acupuncture. physically you should be fine to have s*x but physical is not all of you and you & your boyfriend need to discuss this If you need to. If he doesn't want to discuss or doesn't understand then I think you need to consider the whole relationship. the decision you made is a big one for a female. I support your action but please look after yourself and don't allow anyone to tell you how yo feel - you know what is best for you ... listen to your body :) mind you there are plenty of way of having s*x without vaginal penetration ;) also please be sensible before you do have s*x again to ensure there is no repeat of the unwanted pregnancy. This is not something you want to repeat. be strong and be you!

Answer 10

what an *** tell him to wait, and how about you keep your legs closed to prevent from having to do what you did again.