Mom / boyfriend troubles?

Question

everytime i ask my mom to go somewhere or see my boyfriend she says no "im tired of dragging you around" and i offer to drive [i have my permit] but she says no , still ! i've only seen my boyfriend once [since we don't go to the same school] and it's not fair! and if its not the driving excuse , its the "oh we don't have money for you to go to a movie" or something, then i say "well my boyfriend can pay? or i could?" and she STILL says no! she also says im too young to date, when she was PERFECTLY fine with me dating my ex for 6 months! but the only difference now is that my boyfriend is a year older. ald also school starts next week , so i'll deff. not get to hang out for a while cuz of school & stuff.. how do i convience my mom to let me go places ? or earn money? or see my boyfriend? OR to even let me have a boyfriend? HELP ! i'm really sad :/ and i will pick best answer!

Answer 1

try to have a heart to heart talk with your mom when you two are alone and she seems like she is in a good mood. she might just feel like she is losing you and doenst want her little girl dating yet. tell her that its ok you will always be her daughter and always be careful but that you really like this guy and would love to get to hang out with him. try to show her that you are mature enough to handle this. dont give her attitude or cry about it. i know its hard but try and she might see it.  maybe he can drive over to your house and then he can rent a movie you can have popcorn and watch a movie together at ur house since ur mom doesnt want to take you anywhere. she shouldnt have a problem with this its not that big of a deal. its just a movie and she doenst have anything to do with it. she wont have to pay or have to drive you anywhere. best of luck to you!!!

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Answer 2

This first thing is... I was wondering how old are you, because some times that does make a difference? But besides that you need to try and see your moms side of the argument. I know some times that is impossible but there are other time when girls love a guy for all the wrong reasons. It sounds like she might not approve of this new guy. So I would ask if he could come over for dinner or something. In doing this your mom might warm up to you spending time with him.

Answer 3

get a job to get money, moms love that, and tell youir mom that you love him, even if you don't.

Answer 4

We dont know your  moms situation but with gas high and food high she may only drive where she needs to go.I think he should come and see you not only your mom does everything he can take the bus or walk but he should find a way ..if he really wants to.Talk to your mom communication is the key talk to her and see how yall both feel.

Answer 5

Could be one of those times when u need to  take your mom into her room an sit on the bed and really have a heart to heart talk with her WIthout Whinning!,, you need to ask her straight up and tell her you would appreciate a straight answer from her, listen to what she has to say and really think if its you being selfish, because your whinning pretty hard,,, maybe she's sick of it too,, Do u work around the house to earn your keep, do u help her with things ? Do u back talk and take fits? Do u expect more then what ur given??

better do some soul searching kid,,, and if your mom an u talk and she tells you why your still gonna whine,,,,,,,,,,so make sure u listen to her she knows why,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Answer 6

Obviously, your mom is worried about you, has money problems and doesn't want to have to drive you all over town.  Why can't your boyfriend pick you up or have his parents pick you up?

My advice to you is to find a boyfriend at your school.

Answer 7

Lolz, I would sneak out, but I don't recommend you doing that.  I think you should talk to your mom about it.  Maybe then she'll tell you why she has this problem with your new b/f.

Answer 8

do stuff for her around the house, help her out. and ask when she is calm. it will take some time

Answer 9

Why do you want to grow up so soon? Take your time. I think your mom just wants you to realize that a serious relationship now is not the way to go. Instead of her just telling you, she makes up excuses. By the way, gas is high in cost so maybe she cant afford to cart you around. Why cant he come pick you up? Stop letting these guys off so easy. Make him work for what he probably already got from you!!

Answer 10

hey do u get good  grades not c or d  like a and b  write me back