Mom doesn't like friend.. very judgmental ?

Question

There is this guy who i like. (not as in like to date but like to be friends with and hang out with). I'm turning 18 he just turned 21 but I'm not going out alone with him, just hanging with my sisters and stuff and him. My mom does not like him because the first few times she met him he was to "loud" and "annoying" for her. And now whenever we say he's coming over or around she gets mad because she "doesn't like him" so much.. To p**s her off i told her i like like him (as in dating).. but how can i get my mom over judging someone so fast. He's so nice and so much fun... absolutely hilarious.. and if I want to be friends with him I will. What should i do.. because she if telling me i'm not allowed to hang out with him anymore.

Answer 1

As long as you live in your mom's house, stop inviting the guy over. Your mother doesn't want him in her home; he's annoying.

I can't believe you told your mother you were dating him to p**s her off. Do you really think your judgment is superior to your mother's and you need to "school" her?

Answer 2

It sounds like a typical Arab mom to me. Is that the case? My mom doesn't like any of my friends but their cool. I'm not sure if it's possible for her to llike him. Maybe if she saw the nice and genuine side of him, she might accept him....  Meh.

Answer 3

tell her the good things bout him