Mom having an affair?

Question

my parents live with me they have been married for 37yrs.i know my mom is cheating on my dad she is very open about it arround me she acts like if it's ok and she treatens me that if i sau anything that it will kill my dad and everyone will hate me.i told my older sisters about her and this guy thats married we told my dad and she started acting like if she was having a heart attack and said we were all lying. i feel like if my dad is in denial because i don't see how he wouldn't know she never comes home at night for 5 months now she tells my dad she's sleeping at her friends house that we never met.i really hate my mom for this i wish she would just leave my dad the right way,she takes his all his paychecks and he pay's for her to have health insurance and she never gives him any money.it hurts me that she is using him.what can i do to help my dad and also i want her out of my house she stay's here for free and my dad don't have any money for me.

Answer 1

Kick Her out!!!!

Answer 2

Tell your dad point blank she is s******g around, he needs to take her to the cleaners and you and your sister will find him a good replacement for  his faulty wife.Tell your mother you have NO respect for her whatsoever.

Answer 3

Your question made me sooo sad. I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family! That sucks...I'm sure it is just horrible for you, because even though your mother is definitely in the wrong, you still love her! Of course you do~she's your mom!

But, I'm devastated at the selfish behavior of your mother! It is bad enough for her to do this to your father, but almost worse what h**l she's put you and your sister thru, just to get some cheap thrill! Shame on her!

The best advice I can give you, is to try and help yourself thru this, by seeking some support group or counseling.  

Make your father realize that you need this, and he must step up to the plate as the responsible parent, and help pay, if necessary...

Im just really sorry for you and your family, and wish you all the best....Try to take positive lesson from this dark situation...Im very sorry for you,,,

Answer 4

This is very sad situation, and more sad your mom is doing something like this specially if your dad is a good man, I don't think your dad is going to die if he find the truth, but I also think he don't deserve this no one do, If you are very sure about this if I was you I will ask some Friends to go with me and take some pictures of her, after you have the proof of it get your dad talk to him and be kind when you talk to him, tell him what you think is better for him to do and how much you love him and support him and show him the proof you have, Is going to be very pain full for him but I am very sure he will appreciate you for helping him to open his eyes